Just venting frustration. I know we can't control the behavior of others, especially unstable/disordered people like the BM here. But holy crap is it irritating to watch/read/hear this miserable woman's toxic crap!

Boundaries are working. All she has left to harass/harp on about is phone calls to SD. Who hates talking to her, can see through the BS to what is really motivating BM to suddenly claim this 'need' to 'communicate with my daughter!!!' (Really lady?...where was that need all these years?). Only now that you've been blocked from texting DH your drunken inappropriate novels--all you have left is our home phone to harass us about.

Poor SD. This drunken witch will call 12 times in a row, only to grill SD for 2 minutes with shallow questions 'what did you eat for dinner? Where did you go today? Who was with you? Why didn't you answer my calls last night?' 
If SD refuses to deal with her calls for a day or two...the messages and emails start. 'SD!!! Mommmmy is trying to call you!' 'SD call meeeee this is Mommyyyy!' (Mommy? Lol ok crazy ass deadbeat). Email: YOU NEED TO HAVE SD CALL ME BACK! I CAN CALL EVERY SINGLE NIGHT IF I WANT TO! SINCE YOU BLOCKED ME FROM YOUR PHONE WHICH IS BULLSHIT! IF SHES NOT HOME WHERE IS SHE MAKE HER CALL ME'. 
 

Ignoring all emails, DH encourages SD to make the obligatory return call a few times a week which is all SD can stomach. We will not force this kid to endure Crazy's harassment more than that if she doesnt want to talk. Almost want to go back to modify and create further boundaries around phone calls protecting our peace, and SD's.