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$250 fine and back in the stores - Winona update

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SD17, caught stealing MAKEUP SPONGES from JcPenny and banned from the chain for 1 year. The fine is $250, to be split between the two parents. So, after SD17 watches her gma a few times, she gets about $60, does she follow her fathers instructions and give up the money to help pay the fine?

Disengagement - Spreading the Good Word - update on Winona SD17 (Shoplifter)

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She has no remorse. She tells her father, that she "didn't do anything". Right. she never does anything. Then tells her mother that she "did it for adrenalin." . Never mind that she was caught on security camera taking the make up and it somehow ended up in her purse. They couldn't quite nail her completely because she said she was "going to pay for it", had money in her wallet and hadn't yet left the store. So now, what about the repercussions? Its been 12 days (lets not forget this happened NEW YEARS DAY, after she and I had had a little "thing".)

Things cant get worse? And then they do....

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So, since I've been reading the posts on this site, I've been feeling a lot of different things - some feelings of relief, some new flashes of light bulbs going off and a general sense of unease about the future with SD17. And possibly SD10.

So far, within the past year or so I have discovered that SD17 is mean, spiteful, angry, jealous. And that's not all folks. She's a pathological liar. I've known this for a long time, but BM has always had her head up her #$$ and seems surprised at recent events. "not my BABY GIRL!!!!" Yeah right.

SD17-almost-18 Caught Shoplifting for the 2nd time - and I am shocked. What to do next.

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SD17 has no prior records. She doesn't party at all (no friends to hang out with, no drugs, no drinking). She DOES like to lie, and she gets a thrill from pushing buttons.

Here is what I have been told: SD17 was caught New Years Day in JC Penny, while shopping with BM, and I was told that the security person claimed it was the 2nd time they have seen her stealing. She was given a warning and a fine to pay, because she is under 18. JC Penny has banned her from any of their stores for 1 year. If she tries to go inside, she has been told she will be arrested for trespassing.

Christmas over - but onward to a New Year and new outlook.

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Christmas was good - everyone on best behavior, and lots of family merriment. It went well! But now I am reviewing the past year, with all the bad arguments, challenges and small amounts of success. It was a rough year. SO is now divorced a few months, some alimony is paid, no Child Support, no additional conflicts.

Now I understand why I am always upset!

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Reading through the different forums and postings, I have now been able to put words to the things that I have been hurt by and that have long frustrated me to the point of insanity! It should be freeing and lightening the load to vent and read others vents, but I am worried that it is adding fuel to the fire that is already there, making it larger and rage out of control.

SD17.5's favorite saying: "I was here FIRST!"

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I have a SD17.5, who is always saying this when we are arguing or when we are making household decisions, or talking household rules. I have been in my DH's life for about 4 years now. We have been together as a couple for 2 1/2 years. We have lived together 1 year this December. I did not have much to bring in, some art, and plants and special knick knacks. DH bought new furniture after kicking BM out for cheating on him. We have been acquiring furniture and making things nice together, when we can afford to.

Burp, Slurp, Fart, Yell - Are manners lost forever?

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I have a SD17 (and a half). Ive been in her life now for oh - about 2.5 years so that would make her 15 at the time. Prime teenage angsty years. The absolute worst time to meet anyone, especially someone's kids where their mother hates you. So many things are wrong in my situation, but this post is about manners.

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