BMW Blues
Welll, a little bit o'sad, a little bit o'mad and a little bit lol's.
So heres the story I got this morning:
Toxic Troll Bm went several miles south to either be with or meet up with one of her "dudes". During a strict shelter-in-place lockdoen order. Shes not working so not at all considered "essential". To a little resort town.
She left Munchkin SD13, pupster and Feral Forger SD21 there alone in the crappy little apartment.
AND, she broke down.
Of course who does she call, yup, my husband the mechanic. "what do I do?"
DH - "Well Im not going down there to look at it, take it to a garage, have them look at it".
The lesson here is "yay, see what you get biotch".
But my question and inner conflict is : should we have Munchkin SD13 at our place? Shes obviously bonded heavily with the puppy, and we are NOT taking in a new husky puppy, especially with new kitten and old dog to wory about. And even though feral forger tested negative for covid, Im hearing that testing is inconclusive.
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And even though feral forger
And even though feral forger tested negative for covid, Im hearing that testing is inconclusive.
Sorry, but no, it's too late to bring Munchkin to your place, she needs to stay where she is.
How did TT react to your DH's advice to take the car to a garage?
she took it.
yes, I know. Thats the conflict. I told DH that we cant take chances. And obviously TT is running around and probably FF is too..
I really just don't get it.
I really just don't get it. His ex's car broke down snd she call him? She didn't even have kids with her. all these years and there is still zero boundaries
no you don't need to have skids at your house. They live wuth mom and everybody supposed to stay home. Not go places
HE specialises in BMW
So of course, being an expert, and of course thats the car she HAS to drive, well you see where that leads.
I am having him give me screen caps, to document, of course.
I told him his daughter needs to stay put.
Yes, but HE lead her there.
Yes, but HE lead her there.
Had she broke down in town, would he have ran to her rescue?
It goes back to fear
Fear of her upping the child support which is lower than standard right now. And her going into "rages" when she doesnt get her way.
At least he didnt bring Me or our Marriage (that she doesnt respect) into it this time, as in "its not good for my marriage..."
Probably
But its for the child.
Yep. She needs a honda...
It doesn't lead anywhere at
It doesn't lead anywhere at all unless he wants it to lead there. Him being a mechanic doesn't lead to him fixing ex's car. If he was a surgeon would it lead to him operating on her? It's not leading no where
I have zero respect for men
I have zero respect for men who are afraid to upset their exes but don't care to upset their current wives
I’m so glad you told your DH
I’m so glad you told your DH no to your SD13 coming to your place, she 100% needs to stay where she is. I don’t know how you put up with all this drama, I go into fight or flight mode any time I hear about BM & have told DH to keep her garbage out of my life. Your SD is being incredibly rude for ignoring you the way she is, I hope she turns out better than FF or TT but she sadly has some of those traits from what I’ve read on your blogs.
Being afraid that she will
Being afraid that she will rage is stupid because she isn't his wife so what does he care? As about child support, fear of paying more child support isn't an excuse of disrespecting his wife. If I bugged my ex about things, it would be disrespectful to his wife. Him allowing it would put me and my needs above his current wife.
you need to stop being a doormat, stop putting up with disrespect and stop begging for skids attention. Get your power back
THANK YOU
Needed another digital smack down.
Ill re read this!
An observation
Ok, I am going to say this...first ((((hugs))))))
Next...stop rescuing Toxic Troll...
Yup you heard me correct.
Every time TT runs off to "get some", YOU and dh run to go pick up SD.
Just stop.
Your enabling TT way way WAY too much.
Regardless of TT being a great mom or a hood rat...SD must see BM the way she is. You also give in to TT.
Strictly follow your court order. Stop making changes and stop giving changes.
You sound like a very nice person...
That is different then enabling TT all the time.
Wow
BM went for a little bed time with her BF. And her car broke doem. That is BF problem to save his love not your DH problem. You know he will be paying for the parts
Two... Munchkin already told you,you don't matter ,DH doesn't matter only BM matters Now you want to play her game of control. Munchkin disrespect you, disrespect all you did for her.
Now it's a better choice at your house, today, and you want to pick her up. After BM and her sister are out all the time with there many BF. I am sure Thayer aren't staying six feet apart
NO. Munchkin made her choice to be with BM. She must live by her choices
BM has a BF????
BM has a BF????
IDK
Some dude, who the heck knows...
Shes been MIA
I guess that shes just in that other "world" and I have no idea how to reach her now, and am starting to not want to...its been so blissful..