Well I must have really missed you guys because I'm back twice in one night.  I'm interested in some advice.  What can I do to protect myself from DuH's poor financial skills.  He is now cosigning for a student loan for SD21 because she has a poor credit score.  He had poor credit when he met me and he repaired it with my advice on not being financially stupid.  Now he wants to cosign for a child who #1 didn't graduate high school on time, #2 struggled with junior college for 2 years, #3 started at an expensive vocational school and maybe finished, maybe not??  It's 2020 so hard to say if s

SS11 just left his last will and testament on the camera.  He's almost cute sometimes, lol.  Both kids protested the camera through the camera but they were talking to DH saying, "I know you're stalking us", joking but also saying the don't want the cameras 24/7. DH has no access to the cameras and won't.  The best part is the kids think this is all DH!!  I'd be proud of him for taking the blame, but I finally got him to agree to cameras when the riots were going on because he is telling th kids it is for safety.  As long as the little pumpkins don't feel sad for being monitored like it is

I apologize for the dramatic post a couple nights ago.  I was in a bad place and you guys are my lifeline at times.  I'm in Michigan with my youngest son, he turned 24 yesterday.  I'm feeling much better but I do have to go home by Tuesday to work.  I will do my best to avoid the children and my husband by only being home to sleep and get ready for work in the morning.  Friday is my birthday and I will be returning to Michigan for another long weekend, my older son is moving from his apartment in to a house!!

SS13 is going to be a sex offender.  He is on the spectrum and makes impusive, bad choices. He is addicted to porn...like every time he gets his hands on a device he is not supposed to have he searches for inappropriate material.  His choice of porn is rape and I've also found pornhub videos of incest between step siblings, siblings, mom and step mom in his history.  THere was one that was 'walking in on your step sister masterbating and..."  I didn't watch to see what happens, lol.  I'm just waiting for something to happen.  BM has step daughters who are approx his age.  They all stay up l