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Over reacting again?

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Submitted by Chmmy on Wed, 10/23/2019 - 7:20pm

I've complained about the little skids doing stupid things like SS12 sticking his tongue on a pole or other obnoxious things that make me say wtf. Sometimes other STalkers say I should lighten up boys will be boys. It gets on my nerves when they do stupid or obnoxious things because they're not my kids and they are here 26 days a month and I need peace. Even when they are not here the older skids usually are. So yes I probably over react or get overly annoyed by these skids that a rent  mine. Especially when they are things my most perfect children would have never done.

Columbus Day...did you get an extra day with the skids?

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Submitted by Chmmy on Mon, 10/14/2019 - 8:51am

I used to love school holidays when I was a teacher.  Now it's just an extra day of the skids being home. BM had a busy weekend so she only took the skids for a few hours Friday. DH and I both worked Saturday so MIL took the little skids and took them to the zoo on Sunday so we still got our time off from the skids. Even if BM took the kids for her time this weekend you can bet she wouldn't keep them Monday anyways. DH is CP 90%

Anyone get an extra skid day due to the long weekend?  I always hope for an extra day off when it's a holiday weekend but BM usually disappoints.

Update

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Submitted by Chmmy on Fri, 10/11/2019 - 11:26am

Update.... DH WILL NEVER HAVE THAT FEELING OF SEEING HIS CHILDREN TRULY ACCOMPLISH SOMETHING.

Im out of town to take my son to his job inteview. He flew in and I drove him to his hotel. Just looked at my RING camera SD 17 is home from school again. I know it's because Im not there and she can get away with more. Im kinda pissed that I got distracted and never got those cameras for inside the house. It makes me uncomfortable when she is alone in the house.

Will DH ever have this feeling?

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Submitted by Chmmy on Fri, 10/11/2019 - 9:38am

I just dropped my younger son, 23, at a job interview. He moved to DC after college to spread his wings but he's ready to come back to the Midwest. He misses family especially his older brother who is still struggling with his injuries from a car accident. I got emotional after dropping him off. I am so darn proud of him for everything he has done. His father died his 1st semester of college and he bounced back with straight A's. He found a job straight out of college making 65k and now he is making with bonuses closer to 75k. He has 3 interviews in the next month in the Midwest.

What a joke

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Submitted by Chmmy on Mon, 09/30/2019 - 12:53pm

Sd17 got the iPhone 11...of course cant have an outdated phone. She works, she bought it herself, whatever. Spend every dime you have. Another reason she is just like her mother. She then asked DH for a $60 pair of shoes and DH actually told her no because of the iPhone impulse buy. It's unlike him to say no but he said ask your mom. SD said but mommy doesnt have any money. BM & her husband make more than DH & I yet have no money. Go figure. The skids never want to ask mommy for anything because she is soooo "poor me I cant make ends meet". Blah blah blah.

Work to the rescue

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Submitted by Chmmy on Fri, 09/27/2019 - 9:12pm

So glad im working tonight. It is raining so BM isnt going to pick up the kids til tomorrow. It's actually pretty smart to keep them home. It's not safe driving an hour+ on the highway, possible flash flooding. Im just glad Im not home for it. If it was Sunday she'd be driving home through rain, snow, tornado, floods whatever she'd get them home on time or most likely early.

So now we're on suicide watch? I need to move out

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Submitted by Chmmy on Tue, 09/17/2019 - 8:08pm

When sd17 was too tired to go to school on Monday, DH said too bad go to school and didnt call her in. So she turned off her phone rolled over and went back to sleep cuz #### you dadddeee and then called useless BM to call her in because now she is too sad to go to school so mommeeee called her in and brought her lunch.

When DH got home from work she came up with some story about hating her life and hating all of us and being so sad every day. Really? daddeeee tells you no twice in 6 months and every time it becomes a ####### shit show only this time i didnt get involved.

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