:O I have ulcers! Frequent headaches...stress all due frm SS10 &SS12...if I agree to send them to neworleans to be with their BM, it will make me a less stressed happier wife for my DH, however it would be only temporary...they would leave round 1st wk of june & mayb be back by last wk of july...(if their BM doesnt pull a stunt like she does every other time & keep them longer than what the court order says) ...with that being said, I have to reprogram them from scratch, teach manners, remove the attitude, the disrespect etc...not to mention ss10 cant read write spell & has emotional issues...ugh!! My DH, their FATHER is so laxed! He doesnt do half of what I do with HIS kids!! And told me last yr to "stop tripping" their will always be drama & I need to expect it & accept it & deal!! WTF? Needless to say that was my beginning of stage one, disengage. Aftr this past month with my Ssons im so ready for them to go....but dont want them to come back.