RickyTicky..You most likely saved us soooo much money with your advice! We finally heard back from the lawyer and DH still has court in the other state soon but it is now over back owed med bills (which is just about BM not liking the health insurance..no big) and possibly who gets to claim SD for taxes what year. They currently will not hear the CS part in her state.. The state will also be determined for CS that day but lawyer is pretty sure it will stay in our state..Thank you RickyTicky!!!!!!!Thank you sooooooo much!