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Submitted by butterfly on Wed, 08/18/2010 - 1:05pm

I have a question I have been dreaming recently about dobbing in bm as she gets single mother pension, cs, lives with her new partner and works full-time. Breaking I dont know how many laws. Than she has the gaul to use her kids to manipulate my so. Restrict visitation and prefer to put vthe youngest n daycare because she only pays $9 for the day than have him spend time with his dad.

I wouldn't as know kids are well supported but i would love to hit her where it would hurt her as kids are just a money making thing to her. than she pleads that she always has kids interests first. It is especialy annoying as we are always struggling.

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Submitted by stepmasochist on Wed, 08/18/2010 - 2:16pm

Yes, I've considered it. DH is CP, but BM claims them to get so much government aid including $500 a month for food for kids she only has EOWeekend. And of course, she has NEVER paid a dime to us in CS.

It'll come to a head. I don't think we qualify, but we're struggling and I'm going to file to try and get the kids on CHIPS - the health insurance, through us. I wonder if they'll put it together and when they call to say, "But they're already on medicaid." I plan to just play dumb. "Oh really, well they live with us and we don't have the cards. Is that possible???"

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Submitted by dguiwh2334 on Wed, 08/18/2010 - 2:39pm

Our BM gets way too much in child support and soon to be alimony.. She is also working now, and still gets food stamps! After tomorrow we will have had the kids for nearly 2 weeks straight minus the day she had them for like 8 hrs.. We have skids every weekend! Every weekend!! And at least 3 days during each week!! So, how BM should be getting so much child support?? I have no clue. Since she started her job she bought herself all new clothes.. Suprise, suprise. Well the day before yesterday, she was texting me saying "now that I'm working I can get the kids school clothes lol" my reply... "That's what the 1300 a month is for, the kids" NO REPLY from bm... If we didn't have skids, I would love to kick bm where the sun don't shine!