BM #2 FINALLY called us back regarding SS3 and when can we see him. SO stood his ground regarding her complete ignoring our calls or texts for the past month. He talked to her about it and said ok I will meet you friday at 4. Her response.. Yea just can't do it sorry. WE have plans this weekend and next weekend and we just can't change them. OMG ARE YOU KIDDING ME? So he says to her well that's not good enough. I don't care what your plans are. I have called for over a month now to see my son and you don't get to say no. It's court ordered. She says AGAIN yea I just don't know what to tell you I just can't do it. My douchbag (her husband) schedule changes from week to week I never know when he will be home and so I just can't get SS3 to you. UM EXCUSE ME? So my SO says well get in the car and do the half way drive you're the mom. She says AGAIN "yeah I'm just sorry but it's not do-able" My SO expressed to her that this simply isn't going to work anymore. He will no longer tolerate this behavior. This is his son. And he will see him. She says again.... "well I just can't do it. We have a lot of plans going on and we just don't have time" OMG...... then my SO says so why can't you just pick up the phone when I call? OR call back or something so we can TRY to work on how to get him to me (she is only 2 hours away) she says "yea we just didn't have time to get back to you" HOLY TOLEDO I am at the point of texting or calling her myself. This shit is so PISSING ME OFF. THANKFULLY our lawyer sent out certified papers to her today regarding this issue. We will be in court I know it. I can't wait for her to use all these excuses to the judge on why she doesn't respond to the calls or texts or us even seeing him like it says on the court order. She is more then willing to CASH his checks but anything else... NOPE. She finally says in two weeks I will TRY to get him to you. With that he just hung up. Because we already have the papers going to her so why fight on the phone?

ok so here is my topper for the day. Brace yourself girls and trust me I know what you are all going to say but I can't keep it inside I have to share it....

SO calls me about 30 minutes later regarding a activity he is wanting to do with some friends that we did not have the money for. BUT lucky for him his friends pooled together the money so he can be a part of it. How nice eh? Well GUESS what weekend that three day FUN in the sun is yep the WEEKEND BM #2 said she would TRY to get us SS3. So after my SO gives me this long story about how all his friends care so much that they are willing to help out so he can go off for a weekend and do a guy thing I am thinking to myself UM isn't that the weekend SS3 is possibly coming? He says ohhhh yea. I'm like sooooooooo? Are you not going to get him then. His response.... ok ladies hold on don't fire at me I'm just as ANGRY..... "well I guess I won't get him that weekend!" OMG I flipped out. I said HELL NO. You won't tell her no. I WILL GO GET HIM! I will take him for the weekend. I want to see him. Yes believe it or not. I love this little 3 year old. He is so good. We have so much fun together. I will take him. The whole time I am fuming angry. He responded with thank you I love you.

I am already making plans for us. It will be a great weekend. WITHOUT SO. I am thinking about taking him to my girlfriends for the weekend so he can play with her two kids and she and I can catch up on girl time. THEN SO says to me well there are two dinners for this "event" I'm going to be going to. I said well I'm not going. You will have to go alone. AND I have decided IF BM #2 doesn't let us have SS3 I'm taking off for the weekend. Taking friday off and going to be with a girlfriend who I haven't seen in over a year. I need a FREAKEN Break before I loose my MIND!