}:) my ex fiance and I are now like roommates,We used to be very happy, and I ignored all the red flags that things were not normal with him and his daughter. It didn't really seem to matter at the time, as she was out of the country, on her own, engaged and going to school with her own life. But I did have a clue when we were walking by the river one day, and he found the most perfect heart rock. A fisherman standing by said oh will you give that to your sweetheart? And my lover said no, I'm going to save it for my daughter. She had just gone on a trip to Australia. I wanted to literally die on the spot.
I should have know also when I saw in his notebook, being nosy, that she was the "love of his life".
Those red flags should have warned me, so I only blame myself. BUT things were good, the love and sex and he was hot. So>>>we were so very happy in our new house together, I had kicked my son out so he could be comfortable, and then... suddenly he moves his grown daughter in with us.This was a couple years ago. Apparently she was shooting up heroin and doing a million other drugs crashed her car, going thru withwdrawals in our house. RIDICULOUS...I grew to detest her, as she moved a little psycho doggie in to shit and piss all over the floor. And of course Daddy sided with her when I got upset. She manipulates by crying, and by kissing Daddy's ass, telling him how great he is, and how much she loves him... and turning him against me. She finally got her shit together and left, and a few months later, he moved his son in. Same situation but he lied about what happened as the son was in ICU for months, almost died due to an ? unknown cause, come to find out recently it was a drug OD. I gave it a chance and tried to feel comopassionate for a what I see you guys call on here a sloth, he, partied like there was no tomorrow, and now lost his home due to foreclosure. Daddy say's it's not his fault...blah blah, excuses on and on ad nauseum. Won't bore you with the whole story, only the highlighte, well it's been three months since he move in, a great big 30 year old, I found vomit all over my kitchen, and to top it off his fingernail trimmings in the living room DISJUGTing, when I confronted the BF he claimed to know nothing about it. And no apology of course, he has also wrecked his grandpa's car, gotten a DUI and his daddy saisy oh well the insurance won't cover rehab. and his mommy won't help so, and he almost DIED. Well he never told me the truth about what really happened , I feel lied to, disrespected and ALL OF THE ABOVE. So glad I found this website, because I found out iam not alone in this and that is seems pretty common. I am afraid I will be forced out of here, because I am so uncomfortable in my own home. I have been putting up with this sh\\\]] for way too long and life is short. ANY Advice would be appreciated. Oh btw he is a leo the lion, I am a Ram, Aries, and when we butt heads it is not pretty. He is so spoiled and does everything for his special kiddies out of GUILT just like everyone says on here, cus he was a lousy parent. He forced my son out when he was 19 cux he couldn't STAND living with him . I wish I had put my children first instead of falling for this BULLY who is in love with his own daughter, and treats his son better than me. There. I said it,,,it sickns me that I am in this siuations, and have already considered seeking legal advice hhow to get out of it. I have the morgate in my name , and he barely gives me enought to [pay the bills. If Ileave, I lose everything. HELP@@@@
PS. I have treated this man like a king for years, until he let his kids come between us.