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BM barging into my home

BMnotallowed's picture

Last night BM came to pick up the girls DH said his goodbyes and shut the door. I come in from the kitchen and we share a passionate kiss groping and the like. The next thing I know BM comes barreling into my house saying one of the girls left their jacket and notebook. DH tells her to go wait outside and he will find it and bring it to her. She ignores him and starts to walk up our staircase. I get out my phone and start to dial 911. I just wanted to scare her. We both told her we don't want any drama infront of the girls. She left shouting profanities and urging DH to hurry up and find the stuff. He delivered the jacket and folder and BM left. DH said from his mouth and in a text message to her that she is not welcome to just barge into our house and their won't be a next time because cops will be called if she tries that again. Her response "yeah yeah yeah". That was her only warning. Next time we will be locking the door as soon as the girls leave. I have never been so disrespected before.

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Harleygurl's picture

OMG! Unbelievable! I won't even let BM through the door. She waits on the porch. If she ever just walked in and started doing what she wanted I would definitely call the cops. Sorry that happened to you!

HadEnoughx5's picture

BM's have no problem violating SM's space. I too have had that issue, but mine likes to come in when I'm not home or no one is home. She is such a fucking creep. You will unfortunately will be calling 911 because BM's like that like to test the boundary line.

The one thing you do have going for you is your DH is supporting you in keeping your space together, private. Kudo's to him!!!

Patsy's picture

There was a time when we would just be outside doing something when it was time for BM to pick up SD. That was years ago, now BM will not even pull in my driveway.

ownpersonalopinion1's picture

I'd make sure everything that is supposed to be returned with the children is packed and ready to go. Just who does she think she is?

farting_glitter's picture

that bitch would have left with 2 broke legs...in the back of an ambulance.....