kill her with kindness?

Ignore, ignore, ignore. It's difficult at first, but the more you do it the easier it gets.

does that work on skids, too???

ignore her and laugh the stupidity off........

Funny, but some BMs seem to think that because they birthed a child their x-husbands will do whatever they want. I don't deal with my husband's x at all. We don't speak. However, any decision my husband makes that is going to have a direct impact on me, he will discuss with me first and we will decide together how we are going to handle the situations. She may say jump, but he knows where his bread is buttered.