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We are leaving its too cold in your house and you dont like my friends.

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Submitted by birdsofafeather on Sat, 11/26/2011 - 8:34am

SD to DH "We are leaving in 20 minutes.Its too cold in your house and you don't like our friends" The excuses are sad but funny.The truth is SD1 only came,for the first time in 6 months,because she needed to drop off her Christmas list,pick up Birthday money from Grandmother and try to get DH to let her take a car to drive. SD2 was only here because I over heard that their cable and internet were "broken".

Am I selfish?

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Submitted by birdsofafeather on Sun, 11/20/2011 - 8:25am

We were at dinner last night with SD and friends of ours when I hear her telling DH that SHE has decided to be here for Thanksgiving and will just be staying all week. Without any thought he just answers OK! Thanksgiving is BM holiday this year and our regular schedule dictates that we have SD Monday ,Tuesday and every other Friday, Saturday Sunday. NOT WEDNESDAY. I am extremely pissed off that SD is allowed to dictate this schedule change (she is 14) and even more infuriated that DH approved it without even considering me.

Bi polar BM and its a full moon

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Submitted by birdsofafeather on Thu, 11/10/2011 - 10:15am

Bi polar BM and its a full moon..........need I say more..She is a sad pathetic person who lives a life that must be filled with drama,chaos,yelling and screaming for her to feel great and powerful.She always has to be in control of everything but in reality she is in control of nothing.Sadly,the SDs are a product of their environment courtesy of BM.So upon the arrival of this months full moon BM has declared that I am reading and deleting her texts and emails to DH,not worth my time of day, he just doesn't respond to her dictating demands.

I dread the switch days.

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Submitted by birdsofafeather on Tue, 10/11/2011 - 9:22am

I dread the switch days.Even though I am treated as if I am invisible and don't exist, I hate the negativity,glaring and laziness of it all.I have disengaged and that only seems to have added to my frustration ,because now all the things that I have disengaged from become last minute emergencies or never get done.DH just seems to have the ability to not let that stuff bother him or he doesn't care anymore.I need to learn his technique......Now, on the flip side when they go back to the other house my mood improves greatly.I can come home and find the food that I have in the fridge for dinne