You are here

bewitched's Blog

One day of H being nice-yesterday. Today he's back to being himself-Can't stand for me to be happy

bewitched's picture

Yesterday H was all nice and wonderful over the phone. Of course he was-he wanted me to take SD14 out for lunch, and give her yet more money for her birthday....she had a party 2 weeks ago, which yes, I went to. Gave her $75.00. Her birthday is today, so yesterday he wanted me to give her another $25.00 & take her out. oh, girls, he was so nice to me. Oh, thanking me, so appreciative.

Today. Back to his normal self. I was so happy-the gift I ordered him for Christmas came. So I told him-not what it was-just that it came.

Me: I'm so happy-your Christmas present came.

It's never going to stop-being the outsider, never asked about anything

bewitched's picture

Thanksgiving SD17 & SD14 brought H's dog (who is also SD14's dog) to my house w/them. I was TOLD the ex wanted a break from caring for the dog, so they wanted to leave him here until H was home again. So H came home 10 days later-they still didn't want the dog back.

SD14 calls today to tell me tomorrow is the dogs b.d. Then H called-could I run some money over to SD14 (30 miles away) so she can buy a game she's been saving up for. So I asked him if I should take the dog back when I go over.

So excitied yesterday about school-now I'm wondering if I'll make it that long

bewitched's picture

After discussing with H the costs, etc. again yesterday before I wrote the check for the online classes, I paid for them...with his ok.

So last nite, because I went to the store and bought a few groceries $50.00 worth-and $55.00 of stuff HE told me to buy (gifts, dog chew, etc) he went on another rant.

I did it! I'm now officially enrolled at the college!

bewitched's picture

I'm so excited-I start my online Anatomy & Psy. classes on Jan. 12th!. That runs Jan. thru May. In May I'll be taking the Medical Terminology online-and I've reserved my spot for Respirtaory Therapy in the fall.

I'm so excited. This is the most positive thing I've done for myself since I had my kids--a looooong time ago.

Everyone at the college thinks I've made a great decision-a good fit for my personality, and great pay after all is done.

It is going to consume the next 2 1/2 years of my life...

Evening at BFF's

bewitched's picture

My bff called with a small computer related emergency today-so I went over there this evening, to see if I could get her going with what she needed. She's so sweet-but totally computer illiterate. I don't pretend to be an expert, but with years of working on the darn things, I can get around on them pretty good.

According to SD17, I have no voice

bewitched's picture

H was home this weekend for the first time since Thanksgiving. We decided to go to the town SD's live in, do some Christmas shopping and take them to supper.

We picked them up, drive to the restaurant, have our meal. Both SD's are sitting there, no smiles, just angry looking. SD17, hair hanging in her face. Then the ticket comes

Well, the interview lasted an hour-but I won't know anything until after the 1st of the yr.

bewitched's picture

It sounds like a fun job, but, again, it's only part-time. Part time is still more than I have right now, tho. So keeping my fingers crossed.

H got home last nite and wanted me to go eat out with h-of course, in the town his leeches live in. So he calls SD17-she's already eating pizza. H looks at me and says-so do you still want to go out? (there it is again-he wanted to go out if SD17 would, but now that she won't, it's not important). I made damned sure he took me out for steak, and got another bottle of baileys to get me thru the weekend.

I feel so much better-even tho H will be home tomorrow-thank you all :)

bewitched's picture

I'm excitied about the interveiw-I'll let you all know as soon as I can about the outcome. It is only part-time, so will not get me the freedom I so desperately want, but hey, they say it's easier to get a job when you already have one. Plus, I can put the (if I get it)pay against some bills, reducing the balance while I continue to search for full time Smile

Supper out with my BFF

bewitched's picture

After H's rant and rave at me this morning, my best girlfriend called and asked me to go to dinner with her tonite. We decided to go out of town and have a steak. Smile

So, before we left, H called. I told him we were going to supper-and then he started apologizing for the things he said, making excuse-like oh, work is hard, boss is on him, etc. I know his game. He didn't want me telling my gf the things he is doing here.

Pages