20 reasons why I cannot stand SD12
20 Reasons why I cannot stand SD12.. I'd come up with more, but that'd take to long to make sure I wasn't doubling them.
1. Your sense of entitlement.
2. Your lack of hygiene.
3. You calling & texting your father when you know we are in bed.
4. Using your father like a piggy bank.
5. Your constant need to be the freaking victim.
6. The way you tease my dog.. (If she bites you I will die laughing!)
7. The fact that your father makes excuses for you every time you fuck up.
8. You play up the excuses your father gives.
9. The fact that your father will shell out $80 to you just to compete with your BM.
10. They way you talk shit about me to everyone.. we all know I'm more classy than your BM.
11. You stealing my clothes and perfume..
12. You refusing to clean your room.
13. You getting up in the middle of the night to eat the stuff I made for MY lunch.
14. You bitching about every piece of food that isn't from a restaurant.
15 You having a cell phone when you're not mature enough to have it.. It will go into the Gulf of Mexico very soon!
16. The way your father puts you above me & your infant sister.
17. The way you lie to your father.. and he believes you.
18. The way you dismiss the fact that I put all of your gifts together.
19. You ruined my wedding pictures by making faces at your cousin.
20. YOU THREATENED TO KICK OR PUNCH YOUR INFANT SISTER & YOU HAVE THE BALLS TO LIE TO EVERYONE AND TELL THEM YOU WERE "Kidding"
Oh and reason #20 will prevent you from ever seeing your siblings until you shape up and quit being a sociopath.
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I can relate. my SD13 is very
I can relate. my SD13 is very similar and so is SD17. SD especially with 16 and 17. She can say whatever she wants to him and he believes her. She has lied stright to his face and he KNOWS it and yet still he some how believes her over me. I get no acknowledgement when I pick out something for them for christmas. I waited 3 hours to get SD17 something for christmas and she posted on facebook how her daddy got her the camera she wanted. I have done everything and yet am still nothing. SD13 is always the victim as well. She whines and cries and totally LIES about me so people will feel sorry for her. She is a sympathy whore. and the worst part of it all is they live with us fulltime. SD17 moved out in november because she wanted to play house and got knocked up. She thought that by getting pregnant her bf will stay with her forever. sadly it doesn't work like that and she will get her rude awakening
SD13 didn't get a damn thing
SD13 didn't get a damn thing from us this past holiday. DH decided it was my fault.. I informed him that I have no responsibility to please her.. especially after her threatening. It drives me insane that he has to buy SD something every time he buys DD something.. I mean my goodness, I had to beg to buy a crib that was $113 for DD. But SD gets money thrown her way left and right? I don't fucking think so!
How do you deal with it? I'm very close to telling DH to stick our marriage license where the sun doesn't shine! Their behavior isn't fair to me or DD!
You are completely right. My
You are completely right. My husband is the same way...if anyone gets anything, even when his spoiled brats are at their moms, then they have to get it to. Although they get to do so much shit at their moms but that doesn't matter. I know what you feel like cause I have wanted to walk away so many times but my situation kinda prevents me from doing so which really really sucks sometimes!
Mine does too.. I've already
Mine does too.. I've already given up everything I've ever worked for to be with this fool (scholarships, good paying job, family & plenty of friends). I've become completely dependent on him.. I'm starting to believe the hardship I will endure will be worth it. I would have never thought that I'd regret marrying the military.. fml
My situation is a little
My situation is a little different. I come from a different country and I uplifted my life and my kids lives to come be with him. i was the one always making the sacrifices but for so long all I ever heard was how HIS precious angels had to give up so much. REALLY?? Like what? getting everything they want? boy thats really hard. my kids have seen my mom twice in 6 years. I am completely dependent on him and at times I completely feel trapped but he doesn't understand. i don't even think he tries to.
DH was dumb enough to tell me
DH was dumb enough to tell me that SD would kill to get the attention that DD & I get everyday.. I wanted to break his nose. Instead I told him she could have all of the disloyalty, ignoring, and demanding. The only time he wants to hold DD is when she is sleeping. The only conversations we ever have are him bitching at me for not getting his 'honey do' list done & not having food done when HE'S hungry. If that's what he little brat wants.. she can have it! (And that comment is why I'm up @ 0215.)
I don't know how you do it.. I really don't. You're much stronger than I.
Thank you but i am not
Thank you but i am not strong. I have been in such a deep depression these past days because of all this stuff. My DH and I fight all the time over SD13 because I am always being so mean to her. Only this year has he finally started to see the shit I have been dealing with when it comes to her. All the lies she tells and how she manipulates. I have always told him that I would be more then happy to leave if he would sign over custody of our daughter to me but he won't do it and I can't leave her behind. So its a battle i really have no choice but to face and I will. I won't let that spoiled lying brat win!!
They must be spawning
They must be spawning multiples everywhere cause I have an SD17 and an SD13 who is the same. And sadly they live with us, well SD17 doesn't any more because at 16 she decided it would be fun to play house and trap her bf and got knocked up. Now she lives with her bf. And all i can say is thank God!!
Wow I have all of this and
Wow I have all of this and more to look forward to when Venus De Milo (SS12) comes back into GG's life! She has a cell phone too and unlimited texting.
Yep sounds exactly like Venus and GG!!
Except for the items listed
Except for the items listed that pertain to SD living with us, this is SD24 - dead on! I don't hate her, I don't feel much of ANYTHING for her. I do kind of feel sorry for her because she is totally not prepared for when the karma bus runs her over!