OK - FDH and BM are trying to work out the yearly planner/calander for next year.. so this will include which week the kids stay during the holidays and which holidays they are going to plan for etc.

so of course BM gots all the good weeks last year and we get all the left over ones. But this year FDH has finally put his foot down and said NO we should actually we should take turns each year as it is only fair.

We go to the snow and there is 1 week for holidays when both FDH and BM want to go, she went last year so we asked to have it this year.. of course she chucked a big fuss and wrote this abusive email back.

THEN GOT THIS SHOCK EMAIL!! BM asked us to go on holidays WITH HER!! ie stay in rooms next to eachother.. and have meals together etc! i know she is doing this to cut cost but still!

WTF... she hasnt even met me and wants nothing to do with me but now wants to spend a week up in the snow with me.