Need some advice .. I am trying to organize our wedding but I am really uneasy to tell skids wedding date in fear they will tell BM... I have heard some horror stories were crazy BMs cancel wedding cakes and show up at reception centers and abuse the new couple.

How did you handle this? Our BM is nuts and if she wrecked my day it would b world war 3! But also things will b spoken about when the skids are around n don't want them to feel excluded etc

Did you tell skids or BM wedding date?? Or how did you handle it!

So after my friday blog of BM showing up to go nuts at my FH at his work place, over a mouth guard that she didnt even tell us SS needed..

SHE took the kids keys they have for our house, WENT INTO OUR HOUSE DURING THE DAY! and took all the kids school uniforms, sporting equipment and went through our washing and in our laundry! INCLUDING my stuff... we have no clue what personal items she went through or what she touched, or even how long she was there for!

Our house has had MONTHS of tension between SD9 and me. Everyone in the family still treats her as a baby! and to i just see through it. she does the whole "im thirsty and hungry act" every 15mins.. she is 9! she is more then capable of getting her own drink and snack. At 9 years old i am very sure you understand your actions and would have everyone around your finger, she knows she can do this because it works and she gets away with it.

THANK GOD... after 3 years of drama and battles! its ALL OVER!!

ahhhhh feels fantastic... doesnt change our day to day life but its lovely to know legally there is nothing bewteen them!

i have had a bottle of very expensive champagne sitting in the fridge ready to pop! but finally the day has arrived. courts have approved it all, stamped, sealed and approved!

and we went tiffany ring engagement shopping on the weekend so its happy days all round... even tho Skids are driving me nuts.

this is a special and exciting day a new step to the rest of our lives