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I am searching apartments for rent..

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Submitted by bellamolido on Mon, 10/26/2009 - 1:06pm

hello everyone, I am more of a reader than a blogger so will not find out much about me from my blog. I am in the relationship (2y) with a guy who has 2 kids: 14 sd and 7 ss. Things are not going well lately, I have been searching rental websites all morning...
I thought lots about my situation and I finally decided where the problems come from. My step kids are like most of yours, sometimes easy to deal with, very often not. usual staff, especially with the 14 sd. But she is not the one I want to write today about.

Go or not to go? - ss' b-day drama

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Submitted by bellamolido on Fri, 03/27/2009 - 6:04pm

My SS 7 is turning 7 next Weekend, it happens to be our weekend but I already smell trouble. BM is not contacting DH about the party; we know she is planning one. I was going to organize 2nd party at our house for SS, he does have a lot of friends (our friends’ children, neighbours etc. BM does not know them & will not let him invite these people). If we were all normal people (i.e. BM ) there would not be a problem, but I KNOW things will blow up in next couple of days.

Hello everone from New Bloger but Old Reader

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Submitted by bellamolido on Thu, 02/26/2009 - 6:33pm

Dear Steptalkers! This is my first time writing but I have been reading you for 10 months. Thank you for all your great stories and advices, I feel you are the only people who can understand me these days. I have been great (most of the time) guy for over a year who has 2 children: SD-13 y.o. and SS- 7 y.o. We live together, children know me since 10 months. I do not know where to begin…