anyone have experience w the court hearing after mediation where the mediator is supposed to give the judge the parneting plan for he/she to sign off on? what exactly goes on? my FH and the BM started to come to an agreement but things changed (not for the better) and they cant now. will the judge want to talk to each of them and find out why they cant compromise? mediator has not gotten back to us. we are in MO. thanks in advance.

in our case, BM is crazy and we need to be able to have certain restrictions in place for her so we can have a peaceful life in order to see FSD. they agreed on some terms, but the circumstances have changed, ie she accused fiancees son of sexual abuse, so fiancee can no longer agree to the terms they came up w. we dont know whats going on in her head but we figure shes ready to take him to court. the mediator knows about the allegation and was supposed to talk to BM and get back to us and hasnt. we know BM will not agree to the new terms that we need to keep her in check.

my fiancee is currently in the middle of modifying custody for his 2 1/2 yr old daughter he had w a prior girlfriend. he also has 2 teenage sons from his marriage, one lives w us. the modification started bc BM accused me of child abuse, him being neglegent, etc. i have mentioned in other posts some of the stuff she has done...the abuse accusation, several harrassing calls/texts, constantly changing exchange times, bugging him to "babysit", calling at work, confrontations, name calling, etc...so thurs they had mediation.

Anyone have experience in the state of MO? This was court ordered bc she alleged abuse, against me naturally. my FH desperately wants to resolve it thru med bc we cannot afford (financially or mentally) court. basically she tried to get full custody, supv visits and more CS. has since dropped it but parenting plan has to be revised thru mediation due to the allegation...basically the courts will not just let it go.