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Hello I am new to this site but is needed someone where to come Nd to talk to some other steps parents and maybe be able to find someone to relate to, okay so here is my story! My SD is almost 13 months old, god I don't even know where to start, okay so the bm got pregnant and she didn't know who the dad was she was suppose to get an abortionist lied about it and took my fiances money and bought drugs she did drugs her whole pregnancy and tried to kill her baby so her friends told me I have known this girl for a very
Long time and we had a mutual best friend to actually got killed about 2 months after my sd was born, this is when we came into her life because my sd was starting to look like my fiancé and I was hearing from a lot of peopl that the baby wasn't getting treated right so we decided to do something about it, he called the bm and asked it we could meet her and we did any everything was great, that didn't last long the bm gets really jealous of me and idk why she only had a 1 night stand with my fiancé and got pregnant me and my fiancé got together a month after she found out she was pregnant but it wasn't until she was about 5 months that we found out she never got the abortion and her whole pregnancy she was messaging another dude saying he was the dad the whole situation was crazy, so my fiancé wanted a DNA test of course but the bm kept putting it off because she still had doubts in her mind I guess Ida she's crazy, anyways of course she is his BD sooooooo that makes me the evil step mom well that what she likes to call me, we have so much drama it's rediclous so I'm going to skip some of it so cps took the baby from her mother and placed her with us therefore I have been raising her I am her mother her BM is a piece of shit whore who is pregnant again,& she's on drugs, she doesn't care at all about her daughter all she cares about is making it look like she's a good mom on Facebook, they finally went to court my fiancé got full physical custody and they have joint legal she doesn't have visitation except what they sat up with the social worker which is every other Thursday and last week she didn't even show up, all she does is steal pictures off of my Facebook of the baby and post them as her own, she has people threaten me and she has sent a prostitute to my door before to try to start a bunch of stuff, she constantly trashes me and my fiancé on Facebook and she has like 3000 friends on Facebook so I now have a lot of enemy's . I love my SD more than anything I wouldn't trade this feeling for the world I just wanted to know if theirs anyone to relate to any of this?! This really isn't even the half of it but it's a start, ! Thank comments are appreciated!

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Okay thank you guys! I actually have all of her friends and her blocked I have for a while so I don't exactly know how she sees it because it's also private but I recent,y deleted a bunch of people so hopefully now she can't see it, she is a nut case! She does nothing but try to ,wake my life a living hell! But I'm not going to let her win and get a rise out of me. As hard as hat may be.