So even MORE info came in about VD's grades and the usual meeting with the Special Ed folks to determine VD's educational "needs."

The last time GG went to one of these meetings, he was flat out told that his opinion DOESN'T COUNT since he's the NCP.

Now stay with me here b/c every time things aren't going so well between me and GG, GG sulks like a 2 yr old and starts to yearn to "reconnect" with his three "angels" who essentially have told him to suck on a rock. They have been beer bonging the PAS koolaid for over eight years now and are fully indoctrinated.

On one hand, I'm supposed to have the thick skin of an elephant. GG can use me at will as his emotional punching bag, calling me C-U-next-tuesday and even getting physical with me.

On the OTHER hand, if i so much as INDIRECTLY mention a tiny behaviour that displeases me, GG goes into sulk mode as he is "practically perfect in every way"--Mary Poppins and that "I am LUCKY to have HIM" and of course the ever popular "He's put me in the BEST FINANCIAL SITUATION of my LIFE!" :jawdrop:

I happened to mention that I did not like:

1. two of the same items opened at the same time (in this case two half used bottles of HIS hotsauce) normally I don't say anything and simply consolodate the two items with the help of Mr. Funnel. But in this case I didn't have a funnel small enough.

2. him opening my rather expensive vacuum seal bags with a meat cleaver rendering them un-reusable. I've told him several times we have a special opener for it just three steps away magnetically attached to the frig.

He went into instant sullen mood. It bothered him the entire evening, him responding to me with short mono-syllabic responses, (I should be grateful that he was starting dinner) then gathering up all the school papers for VD to take into his truck (when he does this he is symbollically saying "You are not to glance upon anything pertaining to MY SPAWN!") He usually leaves it open for all the world to see on the kitchen counter.

NO mention about how VD is actually LAZY and that the Behemoth is unwilling to put a boot up her ass due to the BFF NON-parenting model over there from GG of course.

GAG!

So he's probably going to go to yet another one of those pointless meetings on 11/30 only to be dismissed again as the "useless wallet."

Whateva! ION, he totally forgot my birthday and I got a big fat zero this year; no card, no nothing. How ROMANTIC!!!