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Submitted by ataloss on Tue, 08/26/2008 - 7:36pm

Hi all!

I've been lurking here for quite some time now and finally had the nerve to post.

I'm married my DH a little over 3 years ago but have been together almost 8 years. I have a great relationship with my SS8. My problem, like so many of you, lies with the BM. Granted she is no where near as bad as some of you have, but in the past 6 months, she has been making our life rough. So, I decided to join up to get some ideas and support on how to deal with it without losing my sanity (which is slipping).

So, just wanted to introduce myself and look forward to your advice! Smile

ataloss

Remember there is no reverse golden rule!

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Submitted by stepwitch on Tue, 08/26/2008 - 10:57pm

Congrats on making this step. Even though your BM may not be as bad as some here, I'm sure it still plays a heavy string on your heart and it is just as important to you as others. Come on, let us know how we may help.

I wish that I had this site when I was starting out. I found this site when my SD was 17. I just recently told my dh about my st friends and he is so glad that I have this outlet and even told him that if I had had this site 15 years ago, maybe our situation would have turned out differently.

Stepwitch
Thank you Disney for portraying a positive image on all stepmothers!!!!

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Submitted by traceynova on Wed, 08/27/2008 - 3:16am

Welcome aboard the bm is a lunatic express. This site is great, it helps keep me sane in the knowledge that I am not alone! Smile

"Dispute not with her, she is a lunatic."

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Submitted by Gmama on Thu, 08/28/2008 - 4:48pm

I find everyone is so helpful, I have nobody I know personally I can talk to about second marraiges, step kids, bio kids, and of coarse the BM, you'll love it here.