MY dh is wanting to get his kids from his parents. In previous blogs I let everyone know the kids and grandparents situation. I don't think the grandparents will let dh have the kids becuse he is not grown up. He told me today he wanted them back, this terrifes me. Why you ask, becuse Im scared that we will get them and I will be the one that has to deal with everything. His motto is he gets to do what he wants, and to hell with everybody else. I told him today, that untill he gets those words out of his vocabulary his parents won't allow the kids to come live with us. But what if they do? The grandmother has about had it with the sks having to care for them and do everything for them. The sk's already don't respect me, love to back talk and just plain out won't listen. When I tell this to dh he tells me I need to find away to make them listen. I don't think he understands the money situation either. The grandparents pay for everything when it comes to the kids, that would make it our soul responsiblity as parents to provide for them when the come to live with us. Iam being honest, I can't take care of the kids all by myself. Dh says he helps out but no he does not. Plus we have the problem with our work schedules and the kids getting to schoo. I have to be at work by 6:00am and dh has to be in at 2:00am. The kids go to school around 7:10am or so. Who is going to change thier work scheudle to get the kids ready for school and take them to school? I have a feeling its going to be me, and I don't feel that I should have to change my work schedule. Maybe Iam being selfish. But I have worked this same schedule for years and don't wan't to change it. I already pick up the kids from school and help them with homework. When I voice my concerns to dh, he makes a joke and blows it off, usually making me feel like the bad guy. I don't know what to do.