There was a dark time when SD20 was living with us a few years ago, that I had those same thoughts. Actually started seriously looking at my finances and what it would cost me to rent a house for BS7 and I if I left. It was an awful time in our marriage and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. But the good news is, just as unexpectedly as SD moved in with is, she unexpectedly moved out and thankfully my DH saw the light. Saw that SHE was the catalyst to drama, that SHE was the catalyst to stress, that she was a liar and a manipulator and that she was just playing him all along.
And the second she was gone, everything shifted back to "normal" and thankfully our marriage survived. don't know how old your skids are or what your issues are, but here's to hoping for some big, fat, unexpected changes for you
I almost moved out once. That's when DH was fighting tooth and nail to get teens to come to our house and they would make it absolutely miserable for everyone. Running away, stealing, calling us names (only behind our back), taking nude photos. That's when DH told them he wasn't forcing them to come anymore. We didn't think they'd stop coming all together, though, for a couple years except for gift grabs. DH said that BM already ruined one family, he wasn't going to let her ruin another.
Now OSD lives states away with an uncle, MSD lives an hour away with her boyfriend, and SS moved in with us this summer.
Pretty cheap depending on assets and having kids. If you don't have mingled assets or kids you can be free in TX for $350. Totally worth it and I have zero regrets. Except marrying him in the first place. It still makes me feel sick to think about it.
running is not going to help you, deal with the issue, decide and then live with your decision, running is not going to solve the problem, the problem will follow you through life and will get bigger and bigger after every run, the problem will only have different names that's all
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Me too!!!!
Me too!!!!
^^THIS^^ Everyday!
^^THIS^^ Everyday!
There was a dark time when
There was a dark time when SD20 was living with us a few years ago, that I had those same thoughts. Actually started seriously looking at my finances and what it would cost me to rent a house for BS7 and I if I left. It was an awful time in our marriage and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. But the good news is, just as unexpectedly as SD moved in with is, she unexpectedly moved out and thankfully my DH saw the light. Saw that SHE was the catalyst to drama, that SHE was the catalyst to stress, that she was a liar and a manipulator and that she was just playing him all along.
And the second she was gone, everything shifted back to "normal" and thankfully our marriage survived. don't know how old your skids are or what your issues are, but here's to hoping for some big, fat, unexpected changes for you
Every. Single. Day. Only
Every. Single. Day. Only reason I stay is because of DS9 and DS7.
I felt that way in my first
I felt that way in my first marriage.
Eventually, that's exactly what I did. Except I took my kids with me half the time. lol
every day, all the time. but
every day, all the time. but it would be me and dh together with lurch. maybe after he goes off to college, dh will up and disappear for a while!!!
I almost moved out once.
I almost moved out once. That's when DH was fighting tooth and nail to get teens to come to our house and they would make it absolutely miserable for everyone. Running away, stealing, calling us names (only behind our back), taking nude photos. That's when DH told them he wasn't forcing them to come anymore. We didn't think they'd stop coming all together, though, for a couple years except for gift grabs. DH said that BM already ruined one family, he wasn't going to let her ruin another.
Now OSD lives states away with an uncle, MSD lives an hour away with her boyfriend, and SS moved in with us this summer.
I am literally sitting in my
I am literally sitting in my car right now deciding how much it would cost to get a divorce.
Pretty cheap depending on
Pretty cheap depending on assets and having kids. If you don't have mingled assets or kids you can be free in TX for $350. Totally worth it and I have zero regrets. Except marrying him in the first place. It still makes me feel sick to think about it.
Never... running is not going
Never...
running is not going to help you, deal with the issue, decide and then live with your decision, running is not going to solve the problem, the problem will follow you through life and will get bigger and bigger after every run, the problem will only have different names that's all