Do you ever think that BM has found your profile and comments here? What is your proof? Is it in what they say?

I don't think BM has seen what I have said here, but this is for the BMs who do:

BM,

we don't like the feelings we have.

We don't like our negative feelings about you, the kids and your family.

We wish you'd use the child support on the kids.

We wish you wouldn't bash us or the kids' fathers in front of or to them.

We wish you wouldn't withhold visitation.

We wish you'd treat us with respect as humans.

We wish you'd not come to family gatherings that aren't about the kids.

We wish you'd discipline the kids.

We wish you'd acknowledge and love the kids.

We wish you'd treat our kids with civility. They might not be your family, but they are your family to your kids.

We wish you'd visit, call or write the kids.

We wish you'd pay child support and not have your parents do it.

We want this situation to work for everyone, and you should too.

Insert what you wish here, ladies!

Merry Christmas & happy holidays!