I sometimes wonder...
...why men are so gullible.
Seriously, can anyone please explain this to me, because I am somewhat fed up and perplexed. My BF just filed for custody of his 4 year old, whom at the moment lives with him, and randomly gets picked up at her leisure,or whenever she feels guilty enough to go pick him up, if guilt exists at all for that girl. In any case, first reaction when she got served, was of course rage, rant, angry emails, etc.
From that day on, I decided not to inquire, get involved, nor give any opinions on the topic. After all, the stress is not welcomed, nor do I want to deal with hearing about it. The less we talk about it, the less we argue about anything at all.
So now that the weekend is approaching, and I want to plan out my activities, I asked whether or not he had daddy duty this weekend. He said as of today, she said shes picking him friday after school and spending the weekend with him. He added "she was very polite in the email..you should read it"..."this is great".
Ok...allow me to pick myself up from the floor here...Why does he believe this blatant act of manipulation!?!?!? I'm distraught as to why he even believes that she is being "nice". UGHH!!
And I dont want to sound like the angry girlfriend here trying to add fuel to the fire, but give me a break!!!
I dont believe this woman for a second!!! The nerve she has!! I'm OVER IT.
Venting is helpful...thank you for reading this if you did.!!
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I have insight on this one.
My skids' BM would send us one scathing email after another, leave angry voicemails on our machine using the most profane language... then a few days later, she'd send a "nice" email about something mundane, like what time to pick up the kids. And he'd be thrilled.
Now, I have to tell you, I didn't give him enough credit at first, but then I realized that he really does know better. It's just nice to enjoy the change of pace when she puts on her nice act.
I say enjoy the nice while it lasts. On some level, he doesn't really believe she's being nice for the sake of just being nice. And if he does, he'll get hit by the stupid truck soon enough. Just watch.
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Enjoy the "up" while it lasts...
not getting pissed about it.....that's whole other talent that I haven't figured out yet.
I had an I told you so moment.
My SS18 has been in sports from the time he started walking (I'm Sure, Husbands a sports fanatic) Anyways, she would never so much as attend any sports events that he played in. Never once attended Basketball, Baseball nor Football games. Well SS is now being recogonized by colleges and getting some News recognition. Already has been offered full paid scholarships from several colleges. At this rate if all goes well he could even be possibly looking at a Pro Career. Well years ago when his coach had shared with us the fact that college coaches were interested, I turned to DH and said now you know when he starts to get recognized and receiving offers BB will try to jump on the band wagaon and claim the son she never gave a Rats behind about. Well sure enough two weeks ago we go to game and Lo and behold who do you think got off her big lazy butt. You guessed it BB. I looked at my husband and I said I told you so.It just burns me up because she signed her kids over willingly, does not pay CS and hardly ever has any contact with them. And now all of a sudden here you are at the game, like you are Mother of The year!?!?!? But one thing I will say, when she saw us walking towards SS she had a look of shame on her face turned and walked away. Now that was priceless.