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Submitted by Annanymous on Thu, 12/26/2013 - 2:13pm

Well Christmas is sd14s birthday so she thinks it should entirely revolve around HER. seriously. She opened her presents before the little kids. She got a stocking stuffed with gifts and candy and ate it all oh but one-year-old DS didn't get one. She was a whiney brat because we went to my family's for xmas eve and she got more than DS1! She was jealous that m dad gave ds1a cheap little truck. Pathetic! She then gets all her gofts from her mother's side and opens in front of ds1 and comments how its better now she gets more. At least she admits her jealousy. But her selfishness and jealousy is sick. Oh then she fights with her "boyfriend" whom she's not allowed to see out of school and just talks on Facebook, and oh drama and she is "broken" aaaaaagain on Christmas and pouts and whines bout poor pitiful her how she has such horrible birthday and Christmas and says"well sm and ba y had great Christmas so I guess THATS all that matters".

Congratulations SD14 I officially no longer give a fuck. You'll be pathetic and shitty no matter what we do any second the world doesn't revolve around you so time for me to see it like DH sees it and just ignore your bs.

I don't like being around her and I feel bad admitting it. I'm nice and fair but am happier and much less stressed when she's not here. 160 lb 5'3" 14yr old has to be center of attention and get first piece of cake before the five year old cousins.

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Submitted by misSTEP on Thu, 12/26/2013 - 2:37pm

Exactly. No matter how irritating and frustrating she can be at 14, it is totally her BIO PARENTS who have raised her to be such a charming young lady.

Unfortunately, there's not much that can be done about it.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Thu, 12/26/2013 - 2:58pm

Did her dad say anything to her at all? If not I wouldn't be able to keep my mouth shut. No way in hell would I let her ruin my child's Christmas or she can stay with her mom. Yep I'd tell my dh that if he throws a fit about parenting her then she can see her outside the home period. I'm a very big momma bear when it comes to my kids. You are the only one that will stand up for your kid and you need to do it now.

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Submitted by Annanymous on Thu, 12/26/2013 - 3:52pm

He says ignore her she's just a moody teen and has selfpity. At least I am learning to not take it personally any more and start ignoring her. Shes like a giant four years old!

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Submitted by Annanymous on Thu, 12/26/2013 - 4:00pm

Here's the craziest part...

She was not terrorist until I got pregnant! She has been with DH and me full time. BM in and out but hasn't even gave her a present for bd or xmas in three years. She has cause to feel sad but at age 12 she went wacko when I was pregnant (with ds1). She was extremely jealous of the new baby.

I have always done her birthday two weeks early but this year it has to be two weeks after Christmas. She never was this shitty selfish jealous and petty untilast year. Now omg. She's better than she was last year thank god (if she was still that awful I swear there'd be a change somehow more). She was getting to be nice with limited Facebook until dh told her about this pregnancy and she got broke glass and cut her upper arms all up. She was hateful after that and back to her selfish pathetic jealous behavior of self pity.

It was disgusting the inlaws want to give her first piece of cake and she pushed up at the cake with the five and four year old cousins sayi g I want chocolate I want chocolate. ..

I used to make her balanced meals and deserts a couple times a week but she whines to peoole I control her and berate her (wtf) and she sneak and gorge after I'm in bed. I am careful of what I buy, she gorges at inlaws. I don't care now. Let her swell up. No longer my problem. If she gets to 300, IDGAF! I try to limit tea for dinner and she sneaks and eats thr rest of the bag of rolls for thre next two dinners and drinks all the tea. She opens bottles of water and leaves it after two sips.

Used to I would come down on her and now I just don't want to put up with her. I don't care if I'm a step monster now. I did my best for he for ten years and ill be nice but I'm done with the way she has been this past two years. Time to get over herself.