Oh god the SD's are coming. You mean she does not have a cheerleading class to be at this year ?bummer. That is what happen last year. They didn't come for Thanksgiving! Made me happy.

I dread them coming because the BM has manage to train them or brain wash them to make sure that BM is in all their conversations while they are here. UGH!

Kind of abnormal for a teenager always bringing their mother up. I don't remember bringing my mother up all the time at 14 or 15 years old bringing my mother up to my friends, friends mothers, during 4H club or any sort.

It seems like I was with my friends talking about the day at school about someone else or that cute looking boy, talk about our future, doing each other's make-up or nails but the last thing I ever remember is bringing my mother up every waking moment.

It will be like any other day. Like one time we pulled out a wine to drink and one of them would have to chime in and say "oh mom does not drink that kind of wine" or "mom does not like that wine" Pffft and I am thinking silently "Who gives a f*ck" We will be cooking in the kitchen and one of them will have to chime in " Mom does not cook it like that" or "Mom does not like it like that" Which ended up pissing my husband off that day and he finely said something about it. "WELL YOUR MOM IS NOT HERE OR A PART OF THIS NOW IS SHE!!!!"" I don't give a sh*t what your mom thinks:" They kind of shut up after that one.

I could be sitting down flipping through my phone and I will have to hear out of one of them how Mom does this for her and that, and mom helps pick out her performance out fits and how much they have to spend on performance outfits bla bla stuff. " like I care"

We could be picking out a movie to watch and here we go again "mom does not like those kind of movies or mom won't let us watch such stuff, mom does not like those movies.

I have to think seriously do these two ever socialize out side of their mother or is mom in every socialize group they are at.