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Today is SD10's birthday and where is BF?

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Submitted by andrew_street on Fri, 02/21/2014 - 6:59pm

Biological Father dropped her off at her uncles house and he isn't even spending time with her for her own birthday. I realize it's "his week" with the kids, but if all he was going to do was send her off to be with her uncle (who she doesn't even like) I think that's wrong. Not to mention the right of first refusal clause in the custody agreement!

Biological Father accused me of molesting SD9.

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Submitted by andrew_street on Tue, 02/18/2014 - 4:47pm

YEP...unbelieveable. SD9 says that her grandmother (BF's mother) was trying to get her to lie and say that I touch her inappropriately. So SD9 claims she didn't say anything like that but Grandma runs to BF and tells him that I did. Of course this generates a whole incident and he goes balistic. Bla Bla Bla...later he chills because he spoke to his daughter himself...but he still defends his fucking mother saying: She's just doing her job! Bullshit. Trying to get a little girl to frame me as a sex offender is NOT HER FUCKING JOB. Anyone have a rock solid aliby I can use?

Starting the detachment phase

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Submitted by andrew_street on Tue, 02/11/2014 - 12:52pm

I have come to the conclusion that there is no healthy way for me to "emotionally attach" myself to my skids. SO...per the recommendations of other folks on here...I'm taking the mantra of "not my kid, not my problem" and that's the best I can do. I will be friendly. But if my SO thinks she's raising successful kids...only time will tell. I'm pulling my heart out of it and focusing on my own baby daughter. I'm going to do great things for her.

I'll make this short and sweet and then open it up for discusion

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Submitted by andrew_street on Mon, 02/10/2014 - 1:38pm

Does anyone else feel like they are watching a trainwreck while observing their SKIDS as they grow up. I mean really. I have no control or parenting power because my SO doesn't want me to play that role in their lives. And I know that they aren't being raised right at all. It just feels like I am front row to watching them turn from kids with a chance at being good people into good for nothing adults.

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