I got picture forms for SS (1 for us, and 1 for BM) I stopped by her house (She lives on my way home). I wanted to see SS and so did DD2. BM actually felt bad that I didn't get to go to the hospital with SS. I am amazed!!! DH actually told her that I was unable to go to the hospital due to scheduling conflicts which was completely untrue because I had arranged my schedule so that I could go and he told me he didn't want me to go. BM actually felt bad for me, moreso than DH did. BM made SS hug my daughter because she was so upset about his surgery. Then BM asked SS if he was going to hug me, he looked at her like he was confused (she normally doesn't want him to hug me or tell me he loves me), but she told him to go ahead, so he hugged me and told me that he loved me right there in front of BM. I can't believe it. I was so shocked, maybe she's just being nice because she knows I'm not keeping SS for her who knows but it was definitely a shocker