UGGG!!!! FIL and BM have so many personality traits that are the same!

I am the STAH 'mom' for SD2. She is almost 3, and I have never seen a worse case of the 'terrible twos.' DH has sole custody, and BM has still yet to grace anyone with her presence at a visit. (They are supervised only). So while DH works 6 days a week, 10 hour days, I stay home with SD, all day every day. I wouldn't have it any different, most days... I am 20 weeks pregnant with my first, and exhausted. I have something called hyperemesis and I have actually lost weight so far in my pregnancy.

BM=Breeder. DH and I were talking the other night (more so, I was letting DH know everything that was on my mind)... and we (I) came to the conclusion that BM is a breeder. That is all she really is, but because SD is the result of her breeding incident with DH she thinks she can override everything when it comes to SD. The CO states that DH has full legal, physical, and custodial custody of SD, aside from breeders supervised parenting time which is set at every other Sunday for 3 hours, as long as breeder pays for visit up front.

BM called last night, big shocker! It had been 2 months since the last time she called. The length of the phone call: 1 minute 11 seconds. Sure SD is 2 but she is a very talkative and verbal 2. She can tell you what she did, who she saw, and what she had for dinner, but BMs life is so busy that she only has 1 minute to spare. She then texts DH to ask questions! BM is having her 3rd child any day now, and wanted to know if we would bring SD to the hospital when she does?!