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Wife swap...any see the comparison to step life
I'm watching wife swap, and the crazy control freak moms. I'd bet money they would be crazy BM's and make their ex's life hell if they ever got divorced. The ones that control every breath their children take and the husbands too. Does anyone else see this?
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Birthday bust
Why would you think I wanted your disrespectful, rude, ignorrant children's initials and birthstones on my bracelet? I don't. I want my children, the ones who love me unconditionally, respect me, and I enjoy being around. So now something that I once loved will sit in my jewelry box, unworn because if I don't include all the initials it will be an issue.
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O/T...how much do you pay teenage babysitters?
My daughter just started babysitting for a friend of ours, she asked how much she should pay her. I have no idea, I have never used a teenage sitter.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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Interpretation ? Or what do I do?
CO reads exchange at 9am. Kids are in school but school is closed this week. 1 child goes to sitter, other does not.
So...I have asked multiple times to change the time to 5pm to avoid the problem. Both parents work. In the CO the exchange place is a gas station or the sitter. Gas station is out (both at work) and there is no sitter.
My thoughts, leave her at my house and he can pick up on way home from work.
I don't know what else to do. I tried to contact ex to ask what he wanted done and received no reply. He is bipolar and replies are hit or miss.
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Harassment charges
Can you press harassment charges on an ex for sending nasty texts, an emails? You are a ft lazy whore, etc. I can't say not to contact me because we have 2 children together but at the same time I am sick of this. Cussing me out via text, calling me names and I don't think this is something I should have to deal with just because we have children. I am all for communication about our kids just not this. Or does this fall under freedom of speech that if I allow any texts then I have to put up with the nasty ones too.
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I hate my own SM
I am a SM myself and we aren't the Brady bunch.
But...I learned how not to be a SM from my own SM.
Thanksgiving in my family....
Her kids get invited weeks ahead of time, my family gets invited when dad happens to run into my DH at grocery store 5 days ago. My sister is invited when she calls dad yesterday.
Well I had declined as I was cooking
My sis wanted to go and wanted us to.
I suggested I cook as planned and take everything over to add to her meal, since if both sis and I went it would be an extra 13 people.
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Why don't you get it??
So the other day, my DH home from a business trip when trick or treating was happening in our area. DH was invited to go w BM, kids and her new hubby.
Then SK's come home w DH, I had rented a movie and planned an evening for us after trick or treat. Given day before he went to bed soon after getting home cause of jetlag. So skids come home w DH, I am thinking they will leave around bedtime. Nope...they r staying and I was told indirectly when they were told to get ready for bed. And yet my DH doesn't get it, why would I be upset. The fact u showed me less than common courtesy.
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IRS audit thanks to BM
We are being audited because BM decided the year that CS was increased from $600 to $1000 that now she had the right to claim both kids. For years, (at least 6 or 7) they each claimed 1.
We have roughly a 65/35 split. Nothing is in writing as to who should claim who. Anyone have any experience with this crap. Thoughts on what the IRS will say. Will they take into consideration that they have each claimed 1 for past many years and the only thing that changed last year was an increase of $400 a month in CS?
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Why do I have to point this out to you?...
Why do I have to point out the your kids are here to see you, not play in their room while you fill out (non-urgent) paperwork?
Why do I have to remind u to pay your CS and tell BM when you will be away for work?
Why do I have to be the one to get annoyed when your kid takes a helping of dinner that is too much for two adults and they have been told over and over to take a small amount and then get more if still hungry...this is at the same time you sit there and laugh?
Should have just went away for the evening to avoid being here.
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There's the door
I was telling my DH that my BD isn't going to want to come home when his son is here because all they do is fight and she gets in trouble. He spits in her face, and I tell her to come inside because if I got out and address the snotty brat that spit in her face then it's just going to be my fault.
And I say, I don't know how much more I can take, my daughter isn't going to want to be here
His reply...there's the door
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