well i have been thinking heaps and talked to hubby .... instead of him lying low he should make an effort in contacting sd, as then she might make an effort to, lost cause i dont know but we wont know to we try. Even though she has wiped me ... if he wasnt for the other woman interfering and saying her mind and the bm maybe we might have a chance and repairing the damage. i dont know or think so as she looks fairly happy with out, but we have to try again hey. At least then we made an effort .
He's also going to write everything from the beginging to the end of what his relationship was like with the bm... should be interesting ... explaining to both girls why he gave up !!! hopefully then they might understand somethings, we thought the older one already did but shes done a 360...
anyway hope this all goes well, nothing more to lose except my sanity...