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The 1st family is more important then the 2nd so his says!!

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Submitted by acep74 on Mon, 10/06/2008 - 5:28am

hi all
well where to start... well the sd must be saying alot of stuff in her web of lies... pulling everyone into her "oh i'm so hard done by" attitude! the hubby of 3rd party emailed hubby wanting to us to agree to an amount as they put the claim in again for cs, its an outrageous amount when we still have the other sd 13 yrs and our 4 kids as well. The older sd can claim for centre link payments here and living away allowances which would benefit her more. All she wants is money nothing from hubby no input or contact. She rang last week ,, full of abuse i hung up. When hubby answered she is now accusing me of stealing from her in the beginging of the year when we had her keycard. My god half the time i forgot it was in my purse! i rang and left a message on her mobile and told her before you start with your accusations why dont you compare your dates when u wagged school or when u were sick and came with me shopping so get your dates and that right before you slander someone! Havent heard from her since just the ,
hubby of 3rd party went on in his email to tell my hubby he had NO RIGHT starting a new family when his 1st piroity was to the 2 daughters from his 1st marriage! How dare this >*#@ person critise hubby for wanting a life again ? I just cant believe some people and how they take it upon themseleves to interfer in other peoples affairs! Im so angry and outraged and anything we say he doesnt care he goes on to say she is the child and hubby is the adult and blah blah... Well this child had a great teacher to learn how to decieve others her mother!
Anyway glad i can finally release all this as i was ready to explode!
We have a house in our new posting its great , cant wait to leave now 7 weeks and counting! Smile

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Submitted by Chel Bell on Mon, 10/06/2008 - 7:52am

for every time I had to hear BM yelling to my DH about "his first family", and that they should come first, I would be a freakin rich rock star by now! Forget the fact that She was the one who trashed the family in the first place with her mental problems, anger issues, and infedelity. Forget about being arrested 6 times in a 10 year span for being a worthless drunk. And the skids are 100 % controlled by her, even though they are 16, and 14, and should know a little better. They have alot of issues to of course. So I simply say, sorry my dear, STUPIDITY is not my top priority.:)"~waiting on the world to change~"

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Submitted by Catch22 on Tue, 10/07/2008 - 3:12am

Hey Acep..didn't know how to contact you even though you only 30 mins down the road..LOL

I know they are available for centrelink and wonder what is the age we stop paying anyway is it 16 or 18?? How old is your SD..my SS is 12 and I wondered this myself. Don't listen to him anyway sounds like he wants a piece of the money too and he has no right to say that. All the kids are just as important as each other, although your kids together only have one family SD has 2...Hmmm

Catch xx
*Mean People Suck*

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Submitted by acep74 on Wed, 10/08/2008 - 1:33am

yes, i felt so stressed not having anyone to talk to these past few wks. we have a house 7 wks to go, cant wait! i'll send u an email later, this is just a quick memo , kids are ferral and hubby away! yes the hubby of 3 rd party was a ..... really stuck into me and i have felt really sorry for my kids that someone can have that opion about them , they are worth something and it dosent matter that they are a from the 2 nd marriage they still exsist and have feelings and top hell with him! I'll chat later got to go. Great to hear from u!