Does anyone's skids have any good qualities I can look out for in my own sd? Any little thing nothing major because she doesn't have any of those kind, sweet, smart, funny, cute etc. But some obscure thing that I can use as a building block to try? 

Went into sds room today and found chewed chewing gum on the shelving unit all stuck with hair and squashed into shelf not 1 piece but a whole bunch.  According to my dd it has been there since last weekend so now is rock solid. 
Not sure if this is typical kid behaviour or just my sd 
 

It's skid weekend which is depressing enough as it is but sd10 decided she would FaceTime my dd10 to show her the stuff she is packing (to come here) and to ask my ds if she should bring some fidget toys? My son honestly doesn't care what she brings and if she wants her to see something why doesn't she just wait another hour or so until she's here. Maybe it's just kids but mine thought it was a bit weird. X

After 4 whole weeks of not dealing with anything skid related we had them over the weekend. Sd10 was so ridiculously annoying even dh told her off at least 10 times for acting like a toddler. Trying to go out of the house in just a T-shirt. Screeching like a banshee while speaking to someone about a foot away from her. Trying to swing off her dads arm like a 2 year old. Playing with her food and jumping around like a demented fish while others were trying to eat.