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Submitted by new evil stepmom on Wed, 02/20/2008 - 11:25am

sorry I haven't been writing/reading for awhile.

BM didn't get her family study paper work - so everything is dropped for now. it still cost my husband about $1200 in attorney fees. it is back to 50/50 placement, but at least SD has been put in her place and her game playing did not work this time!

bio meeting, any bm's out there for advice on this one?

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Submitted by new evil stepmom on Thu, 01/17/2008 - 3:05pm

any bm's out there for advice on this one?

sd (13-yrs) is displaying behavioral problems, biting hitting spitting on bf. also, most recently sd acting sick and missing school - very convincing too (only beginning of 3rd quarter and sd has missed 3.5 days). sd forgets to take her medicine (medicine could be making sd ill). talks back to bf and me, always arguing/bickering.

bm is coming over tonight to talk about sd's behavior and medication.

should I be present?

or should this be between bio's only?

I have only been in the picture 2-years.

need help on SD from any BM's

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Submitted by new evil stepmom on Fri, 01/11/2008 - 10:01am

SD played sick from school yesterday. There is a dance tonight and BF told her since she missed school Thursday, no dance on Friday.

Do you agree with his decision?

How do you handle this type of situation?

also, I was going to take her shopping on Sunday for a dress for a formal dance in February. I think I should also revoke this privilege until her next stay with us due to missing school.

BF and I think we should do this to deter SD from playing sick from school in the future. We know she was just playing, she had no fever and didn't want to go to the dr.

any bms have advice/input on this one? or steps?

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Submitted by new evil stepmom on Thu, 09/27/2007 - 3:18pm

dh and i are dealing with a bm who either wants more money or is manipulated by 13 year-old who is lazy about rules and homework.

they went to mediation today (we currently have 50/50 placement). our 50/50 is one week on/one week off. bm is fighting for 100% (dh has had 100% since sd was 6 years-old to 12 years-old - bm always lost in court).

paternity test?

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Submitted by new evil stepmom on Wed, 09/19/2007 - 3:11pm

sd is 13, i would like a paternity test. how can i get dh to get one? should i manipulate the kid into wanting one? i think it is unfair to everyone for dh to continue with his secret. bm had a threesome when sd was conceived and bm also had several bar-time sexual partners around the time on conception. sd does not look like dh and dh has very low sperm count.

any advice?

advice needed

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Submitted by new evil stepmom on Mon, 09/10/2007 - 3:01pm

SD has an opportunity to go to Washington DC on a class trip, she is in the 8th grade.
This, in my opinion, is a very important step in her education and morale.
Neither one of her bio parents have the money, but originally they told the child 1 yr ago each would pay half. Now, she is not going (unless I pull this stunt), This trip has to be paid for in the next couple of days or she misses out.
Should I pay for the trip? It could cause the BM to hate me more for spending so much money on her kid, it could cause the SD to like me more or to "USE" me more!

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