You know what the hardest thing about being a Sp is. The fact that he doesn't even want to be with us and has to because he is a bad kid. You know how you all have court arrangements and visitation and yada yada yada. While this kids mother had him and was living with her parents and literally the grandparents called dad and says come get him now because he is embarrasing us in the community and if you don't get him we are giving him up for adoption. Like WTF right. Dad goes and gets him and kid balls his ass off not wanting to go with dad.

I absolutely undeniably loathe that brat. He has all but destroyed my marriage. He is perpetually grounded because he is a moron and couldn't pass a class if his life depended on it. Last night he calls me and not DH to ask to go to a friends. I knowingly say u have to ask your father because anytime I tell him no a huge fight ensues about whether I can tell him no or not. He even will get the school involved about it. He is a professional crybaby. Anyways he didn't call DH and when I talked to DH I told him SS would say that I gave him the wrong number.

My Pre-teen SS is perpetually grounded. He messes up daily, gets bad grades at school, is too lazy to do anything w/o being asked like clean his room. Then he has the audacity to complain and whine about how we don't do enough for him that his life is boring and he doesn't have enough. Getting him to study is like pulling teeth. We confine him to his room to study and he fights it. He won't stay in the room coming out every 5 minutes to get drink or something else.

My 12yr old step son is making me into a monster. Last week one of the cell phones disappeared. The one we let him use to call his family. He convinces us I lost it. This week another cell phone disappeared along with his IPAD. At this point he cannot convince us that I lost it so he I believe makes up a story that he left the cell phone on the truck and it fell off when driven away. I don't really believe this because he lies and makes up stories all the time. I mean it is bad. I don't even know what to do because he needs a lie detector test if his mouth is opening.