Now it's their weekend however our court order does say I get Mother's Day and he gets Father's Day. She texted me inviting me to a Mother's Day brunch at their house Sunday morning. I will be at work Mother's Day til 5 on but they didn't even ask. 

First two years with ss on mother's day, just why? But I never asked. Transpired it was so bm could put some forlorn status on her fb about missing her son so much on mothers day (bitch you never stick to the days so why now?) Well it was so poor boyfriendless bm was sure to get something for mothers day off dh.

Dh overlooked it the 2nd year, being my first mothers day with dd, and for his mum. We'll she sent ss through the door that morning with a parrotted message to 'make sure you get mummy something nice' dh was raging, ss was too young to care, we got a savage message off bm that night 'how could you be so cruel'

Errr, err dh never asked for anything of a tiny ss (bm) just his company, and ss continues to get his dad nothing at 12. Go get your bf to make a big deal and buy you shit for likes on fb. Lo and behold ss magically spends every mothers day with bm now, and thank the lord 

My agreement with my ex, and DH's agreement with his are (thankfully) silent on MD and FD.  The kids are where they are.  Some years they've all be here with me.  Some year's they've been at their other houses.  We celebrate when they're here without getting too worked up about what day it is thankfully.  Life is stressful enough without changing schedules because of a Hallmark holiday!

Doesn't speak to Darth Vader (BM) so its not an option to spend Mother's Day with her.  Bratty tried to visit Grandma and spend Mother's Day with her and Grandma told her not to come.  So now Bratty will be attending a Mother's Day brunch for her Aunt on the Saturday before Mother's Day and probably sulking by herself on the actual day of Mother's Day.  She better not try to text me - I will tell her flat out that I am not her mother or stepmother so please bother someone else today LOL.

We had custody of Spawn so we had her for Mother's Day. It wasn't an option to let Meth Mouth have her because there were several years of supervised visitation, no over nights, etc. Once Meth Mouth graduated to EOW visitation if Mother's Day happened to fall on her weekend she would have her.
Personally I never put much stock in Mother's Day, but that is because I have to spend most of that day placating my own mother.

But it does mention Fathers Day.. so it's weird. Usually mothers day falls on her weekend. This year she said to drop him off on Mothers day and we get Friday-Saturday. oh well

My husband has 100% physical custody of his son, his Mom lives out of state, and Mother's Day is always during the school year so we keep the son and generally do little to nothing for Mother's Day. The first Saturday after school ends his Mom usually picks him up and he stays for the majority of the summer missing Father's Day and we generally do nothing for Father's Day.