I have a question for all of you...let me explain a few things first. I have 3 biokids of my own. My husband has 2 and we have 1 together. I am from Canada and moved down here to where my husband grew up, 8 years ago. His kids have made my life hell...back in May I packed up and was ready to go back to Canada. I was just so fed up with being treated like the enemy all the time, and him acting like his kids were these precious perfect little angels. We packed up the trailer and we pulled away...my kids were bawling hysterically begging me not to go.

I have been fighting an on going battle for nearly 6 years. You think things are getting better and then more shit starts. I live with sd13 who is a pathelogical liar. She is purely evil and is a sympthy whore. You put those 2 together and its a really REALLY bad combination. Then you have sd17, who doesn't live with us but is completely obsessed with daddy dearest. I guess her friends could care less about her life and so then she turns to daddy for the sympathy and attention. DH has developed this obsession with precious sd17 and they text ALL the time.

When sd17 lived with us daddy and her hardly talked. Up until a few weeks ago, they only talked a few times. now all of a sudden, these past couple of weeks, he has to text her EVERYDAY!!! Its not just a few texts, it is all f***ing night. We are out at the bar having a good time and he he hs to text her. R U SERIOUS?? He can't be out having fun without having to text her. Its like its become an obsession and he can't go a single day without texting her, no matter what we are doing. He texts her from the time he gets home until he goes to bed.

I need advice...good or bad. SD17 is having a baby shower...well MIL is having it. Now originally I was suppose to do it but then SD17 decided gma would do it because I told her that I didn't want MIL there. I never said I wasn't going to invite her, I just didn't want her there cause she runs her mouth and doesn't know how to shut up! So it was taken off my hands, which i was in fact greatful for. Now they have given me an invitation and I don't want to go. I don't like SD17 or HD's family and do not wish to sit and pretend in a room full of them.