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Submitted by angelas_shadow on Tue, 02/01/2011 - 11:35pm

OK I spoke with dh tonight and we made a new game plan for bm. From now on we are going to have some basic rules that we will expect her to follow.
1) She will be expected to follow the co period. If she doesn't dh will report to the police and he husbands commanding officer every time.
2)If she has complaints dh will keep me in the loop so that we can deal with them together, and I will handle complaints about the things I am directly in charge with ie clothing food ect. If she doesn't want to discuss it with me she will be sol.

i would like opinions

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Submitted by angelas_shadow on Mon, 01/31/2011 - 8:31pm

some of you have read my other post but i have a major quandary. i have disengaged from the bm because i truly hate her, but i wonder if that is the right thing to do. she is a horrible person and drives me up a wall, but maybe i should be calling her on her behavior. do i have the right to tell her what i think?

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Submitted by angelas_shadow on Sun, 01/30/2011 - 9:16pm

OK this is my first time here but one of my close friends keeps telling me I need to come here and see if you can help. I have several issues bothering me right now but i will start with ss8. I love this kid but he is driving me nuts! We had a very good relationship for awhile but then he and my bs were involved in a situation of a sexual nature and now everything seems ruined. I will extrapolate on that later, but for background his bm refused to let him visit for many months and has held us (mostly me)responsible for everything. I find that unfair on so many levels.