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Another Paycheck ddown the drain

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Submitted by 007Lostit on Tue, 08/16/2011 - 5:05pm

Well SD 18 just blew another paycheck and didn't save a dime. She just bought frivolous things at the fair. She ended up going with my sister and my sisters BF to a concert and they got into the fair for free afterwards....that is where she dumped all her money.
I wonder if it would be fair for me to just tell her she either saves her money and moves out or she can go live with her mother or one of her crazy aunts??

You are not my childrens mother!

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Submitted by 007Lostit on Thu, 08/11/2011 - 2:31am

So SD comes in the door from work (her dad picked her up) and she immediately tells my daughter...you need to go to bed.
Excuse me?!
When the hell did you become her mother?! I don't freakin' think so!!
She has been doing this A LOT lately! No matter what I say to her...she just thinks she is free to tell her younger siblings how they need to behave, and what they need to be doing.
It is seriously pissing me off

So tired of her laziness...

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Submitted by 007Lostit on Tue, 08/09/2011 - 6:00pm

I swear she is trying to get fired...i am not feeling well today, and I went back to my room and took a nap. I woke up at four, because she needs a ride to work. I go and wash up and wake myself up. When I come out of the bathroom the phone rings...its in the other room and she answers right away...tells them she is on her way.

She is still living here....

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Submitted by 007Lostit on Tue, 08/02/2011 - 3:49pm

Well it is August first...she is still here. She has saved zero money. But she is paying us 200 out of every pay check. Not that it makes up for anything...

She is still unbelievably lazy! She stays in the basement till she needs a ride to work....I am ready to tell DH that she needs to ride the damn bus to work or take a cab.

I am not sure how much she makes where she works...but she is walking over to the book store across the street from where she works and buying books to read, which is why she never comes up stairs when she is not working.

When should she go???

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Submitted by 007Lostit on Wed, 06/15/2011 - 1:57pm

Well, my SD graduated High school at the end of May.
Now my question is...when should she go? How long do I have to put up with her lazy ass?
For real...she has a "new job" at a local fast food place. She applied cuz she didn't like working the morning hours at her old job. So now she works until midnight all the time. DH goes to pick her up. He complains about being tired etc...but I don't really care....she isn't my problem and I ALREADY take her lazyiness to work as it is.

3 weeks....can't do it

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Submitted by 007Lostit on Sat, 05/07/2011 - 2:29pm

I have three weeks till her graduation. I thought things were going okay. (hello me...when have they EVER gone okay in the end? right?) She has been in contact with her mom again. Nice how she can contact her once she turns 18, and she is one month away from graduation.
I Just can't do the three weeks.
I can't.
I feel like crying right now.

update to 18 and the bar

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Submitted by 007Lostit on Fri, 03/25/2011 - 3:02pm

Okay, so I had to tell DH about the plans. I was a little miffed at his reaction and lack of knowing what to do....I think he is afraid that she will get pissed and run away again...I say suck it up!
I told him that if it was our daughter (our now 8 year old) there would be no way in hell that she would go.
He sort of told her no....he asked her if there was something else they could do.
I told her she had no damn business being in a bar at 18!

She played the dumb card and said she had no idea it was a bar....blah blah blah....always miss innocent.

Ahh...Four days into 18....lol

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Submitted by 007Lostit on Thu, 03/24/2011 - 4:35pm

You know...I knew something would occur once she turned 18, I just wasn't sure what, when, and where lol. Well I got a glimpse just a few minutes ago. LOL....oh my her dad is just going to LOVE this!

I got to meet one of her "friends" who we have never met before (red flag)...the rule has always been that we meet the friends before you get to do things with them etc....this girl was VERY "chatty" lol (red flag). Told me where she works, that she has two jobs etc...one job is at a bar/casino/restaurant (red flag) (who lets their high school kid work in a place like that?).

less than 2 weeks!

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Submitted by 007Lostit on Wed, 03/09/2011 - 4:31pm

hahah...not that her 18th birthday will make any difference...but hey...at least I can boot her ass out and not feel bad about it after that.
SD will be 18 on the 21st.
I have been holding up my ignoring Smile Yay me! It has been wonderful for my sanity. She of course still is up to her old tricks and manipulations but I just don't let it bother me. I keep thinking, I only have a few more months of this crap and I am done.

It's driving her nuts and she is amping it up

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Submitted by 007Lostit on Tue, 02/01/2011 - 9:21pm

Well...I talked with dh this evening before he left for work (second job on tuesday's and Saturdays)...told him that SD(17) must really be getting irritated that I have been ignoring her. Because she is amping up her passive aggressive tactics...doing lots of the little things she knows bothered me before...but I have let go since I realized she didn't matter to me and I started ignoring her.

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