What the F is wrong with these kids!!
Get to the daycare, and I can tell from the look on the directors face that it wasn't going goong to be good. Immediately my mind starts racing....who did what?
1. SS asked his leader/teacher to buy from his fundraiser. Which she did and paid him for it in cash. Unfortunately he doesn't mention to hee until later that he isn't allowed to do the fundraiser. (he lost a bunch of money last time and we had to cover it, so he was told no this time). Minor, but once again deliberately doing something he's been expressly told not to. And he only came clean because of what happened next...
2. They are playing outside with their group. SS, SD and some other kid get into an argument about whose turn it is on the swing. SD gets so enraged over this that she flipped out. She got in the kids face screaming..... Telling him the she hope he gets murdered. Went into detail that she hope someone breaks into his house and suffocates him by choking him so he can't breath until he died. That he doesn't deserve air to breath. She continued along this rant until the teacher ran over across the playground.d. She got through three scenarios of how she hopes he dies.......all over a friggin swing. She had to be dragged to the office.
Comes home (dh is at work so I am by myself) and is skipping around like nothing even happened happily trying to tell me about her field trip tomorrow. It took everything I had not to lose control. Sent her to her room and then striaght to bed after dinner. No shame or remorse at all. There has to be something mentally wrong with this girl.
Told Dh about it all on the phone when he was on break. Can't wait to see how he handles this. Didn't seem overly concerned when I told him (ive was shaking I was so upset when I found out) but I am hoping that it was just because he was at work and he will deal with her appropriately when he gets home. His one comment...... Oh, so her true personality came out yes, and why am I the only one concerned that her true personailty is that nasty and aggressive?
I don't k ow how.much longer I can do this....
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she sounds like the bad seed.
she sounds like the bad seed. little psychotic bitch. if that was my kid she had said that to, i would have went The Hand That Rocks The Cradle on her ass!
Oh peanut I'm so sorry you
Oh peanut I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. Its way better than when my SS4 peeded on his sister
Yes, a normal parent would
Yes, a normal parent would pull her from the field trip.... But I can pretty much guarentee Dh will let her go. Hence how she is the way she is now.
mine too. "oh, you told a
mine too. "oh, you told a huge lie and spread mine and sm's business around, something that is not for anyone but us to discuss IF we so choose to? ok. sure, i'll take you to your bf's for the weekend, but i want you to know that i'm not very happy about what you did". dumb bitch was 16 years old and knew better. but yeah, lets reward her with a weekend with her bf.
How are we ALL married to my
:jawdrop: How are we ALL married to my DH @ the SAME TIME?!?!?!?! :jawdrop:
hahahaha!
hahahaha!
She hasn't seen bm in years.
She hasn't seen bm in years. And she certainly didn't get it from our house.
She came to us at 4 yrs old with that mouth and attitude. Mil had her from 3months-4 years until SD was so out of control that she sent her to us. SD spent the summer with mil, so she thinks she's a little badass again.
I feel ya. I don't get why,
I feel ya. I don't get why, in these situations, I feel so much more angry about psycho SD's behavior & lack of remorse than DH does! I would think that if it were my kid, I would be more upset because it's my monster. But, how DH is more talented at disengaging than I am...I'll never know!
I had an issue with a woman
I had an issue with a woman that worked for me when I used to own a restaurant. I caught her on video stealing from the register by throwing away the guest checks and pocketing the money. I showed her the video and fired her on the spot. Should've pressed charges, but felt sorry for the three young children she was raising on her own.
Her oldest son is two grades ahead of my DD12, and now that she has entered sixth grade, she's attending the same school as him again. I have been nervous about this for the last few years, because when DD was in third grade, her son was incredibly hostile towards her. I alerted her teacher and the principal to the situation, and asked that they not be around each other and if it were unavoidable, that they be closely monitored. Three days before the end of school, during a school-wide activity, this little f*cker approached my DD (then 9), and told her "your mom is a stupid bitch. I'm gonna come to your house and kill your mom while she's begging and bleeding".
My DD was horrified and scared to death. She was sobbing uncontrollably when she told me what he'd said, and even after I assured her over and over that he'd do nothing of the sort, she still wanted to sleep with me, with the lights on, even after doing a thorough search to make sure every window and door in the house was locked for quite a while. It was extremely traumatic.
I hope your DH doesn't just ignore her behavior and threats toward this other child. Her mental issues are being visited onto innocent kids that don't deserve to have those sorts of fears and images in their minds. If she continues to say sh*t like that in school, it will not be a good situation for anyone. That's really not normal, and she needs some real help with managing her anger. I would be nervous about the safety of everyone in my household if my SD talked like that, and at her age, be hypervigilant in watching out for your animals and small children, if you have any.