- Do I need to be concerned about my privacy?
- What do the abbreviations mean?
- What are the rules of conduct?
- Can I delete my account? Or, how do I delete my account?
- Is this site for Step Parents only?
Do I need to be concerned about my privacy?
Yes! Sure you do! This is a public forum, meaning that anyone in the world can read what everyone posts on this site, if they're looking for it. It's most likely how you found this site; by searching for something related to your situation. By being an open forum, the search engines get to index members blog posts and other people in need can find what they're looking for: people in the same situation.
So, in the interest of your personal privacy, and the privacy of your family members (and ex-family), do not post personal details such as names, well-known nicknames, specific places, etc. on this site or any other site for that matter. If you don't publish that information, it's impossible for someone to find you by searching for those details. You are as private and safe on this site as YOU make it. Take a minute or two to think about it. How would anyone know how to find you here unless you've provided that information yourself? How would any member of this site know who you are, your family is, or your spouses exes are, unless you give them that information?They can't. It's that simple.
Bottom line, if you haven't posted your family's names, nick-names, places of employment, phone numbers, names of schools, etc., they won't find you here by searching. So as long as you don't allow them to find out you frequent this site some other way (browser bookmarks, browser history, watching over your shoulder, etc.), you're perfectly safe here.
So as long as you follow those simple rules you can contribute all you want to this site without fear of retribution.
What do the abbreviations mean?
Here are just a few (for now):
- sm = stepmother
- sd = stepdad
- bm = biological mother
- bf = usually biological father but every now and then some use for boyfriend
- sd = step daughter
- ss = step son
- bs = biological son
- bd = biological daughter
- dw = darling wife
- dh = darling husband
- dd = darling daughter
- ds = darling son
- poa = power of attorney
- cs = child support
- mil = mother-in-law
- fil = father-in-law
- pas = Parental Alienation Syndrome
What are the rules of conduct?
Can I delete my account? Or, how do I delete my account?
Yes! You can delete your account if you wish to no longer contribute to the site and want all of your prior contributions (Blog posts, Forum posts, comments, etc.) unpublished. Just click the "Delete Account" button on the edit tab of your account page. Once you confirm the delete, your account will be deactivated and all of your content will be unpublished.
Please note that once you deactivate your account you will not be able to come back and create an account using the same email address you used previously.
Is this site for Step Parents only?
Even IF we wanted to restrict this site to step parents only, there's just no way we could. Think about it, there is absolutely no way to verify that someone is a step parent. Anyone can lie about their parenting status.
Our slogan is "where stepparents come to vent", but that in no way means that we don't welcome anyone else. We welcome anyone who wants to contribute to this site in a constructive way, even if they aren't a parent at all. As long as you play by our rules, you're welcome!
On the flip-side, if you don't play by the rules, you will not be welcome here. That applies to everyone, irregardless of your parenting status or how long you've been a member.