So, a little back face last time DH was gone I posted about SS crying and saying that I told him I was happy when he was sad and using this as a way to not go to school as he was scared I would show up and be mean - I have only showed up to take him lunch which was always a very joyful time. When DH returned it was mentioned and I told him that even though I felt like his fear was irrational to make him feel better I would no longer be taking him lunch (something I was planning on anyways)

Also last time DH was gone this is something I didn't post about but his sister and I got into a fight of her attacking me because I said DH's eldest brother wasn't "king kid" and should have to help with something at Thanksgiving it was all a big joke even the eldest brother text me saying it was absurd. Mind you DH is the middle child and there has always been tension between him and his sister as he was not dad's favorite and she used to purposely blame stuff on him to get him in trouble and will say he is nothing but negative yet last time her truck was not working DH fixed it essentially for free she simply just had to buy the part. I simply defended myself and we moved on and she did not attend Thanksgiving as she had to work. This was perfectly fine with me however Christmas rolled around and I told MIL I would stop at her house on my way out to see my family as MIL and I are close - surprise DH's sister is there and actually very nice to me and I was cordial back no problem. I was actually very surprised.

Well I enjoyed a drama free Christmas and did tell DH to tell SS I sent my well wishes so that there wasn't a personal conflict with BM, and later I asked DH how SS's Christmas was in which he said fine and then that he thought they were doing something at FIL's without him (I posted about).

Fast forward to last night SS post something about the Cowboy's game and DH made a smart ass remark simply to rile his sister up. This turned into a full out argument and even Bible versus getting involved and then SIL saying she was done after DH hadn't posted in a good 10 minutes and him making a snide remark about her wanting control in which she then called him ignorant and stupid mind you during all of this DH was either on Facebook talking to me or calling me or MIL to giggle about the situation. I did like some of the post that he had put as they were valid and was not attacking but simply trying to get her to be a nicer person, but at no point did I directly say anything to her though I guess she got pissy and was mad that DH was done.

I honestly didn't think and reposted something that my friend had posted about how people aren't perfect in which SIL attacked me saying if she ever heard me be mean to SS that she would knock my teeth among other things. I commented back simply defending myself then received a text from DH that said "All right you need to stop" in which I deleted the whole post and pretty much left it alone. Mind you right before I posted the post I had sent her a message saying that I knew she probably didn't like that I liked some of DH's comments but she didn't need to drag me into her trying to end the argument as she had put something like "Okay DH and SBM I am done blah blah blah" even though like I said I never actually commented. Well she proceeded to respond to this message that I am evil hearted and am taking her brother down with me. I simply responded that I wasn't to which she says that SS said he was scared to stay at FIL's house because he was scared I would show up and be mean - again mind you he pulled a similar stunt but with school last time DH was gone, I have not seen the kid in TWO weeks, and have only went over to FIL's house once without DH and no one was home and I was simply dropping off clothes for SIL's son and a check as DH had borrowed money from FIL for a vehicle repair when his pay got messed up. At this point I again defended myself and then blocked her as I do not like drama and I am sure she was ranting to DH too and he hates it as much as I do. Also last time DH was home I essentially tried to disengage as much as possible though did SS a hug and tell him I loved him before we dropped him off but that was the most communication we had essentially had due to earlier in the hitch him twisting words to get attention from DH.

I do not know why all of a sudden she feels like she needs to attack me when the woman has never liked me simply because her and DH don't get along and I had not actually said anything to her. It is just so absurd especially with DH telling me I needed to stop when I hadn't started it. With the whole SS thing I feel like I am starting to build resentment because at this point he is yes only almost 6 but being irrational and using things about me that are absurd to get attention.

DH would not communicate with me last night hardly at all and I do not know if it is because I blocked her or what is going on. He did tell me he was going to bed but nothing more and it truly hurt me to the point I slept in our guest bed. He comes home Thursday and I do not want drama or issues but I do not feel like me simply posting that she took directed at her was starting and I just want my husband home and for us to all be happy, and for SS to come home and again realize I am not mean and for us to move on.

I just feel so stabbed between being attacked simply because DH was done, SS clearly wanting to destroy my image for attention which I don't doubt is supported by BM and feeling like my husband got made and shunned me because I wanted to defend myself.