I lost my patience with trying to get DH and Guzzlord in line on the dish situation.  Like, I realize it sucks this place doesn't have a dishwasher, but it's not hard to do if you keep up with them and I feel like Guzzlord won't die from overexertion without one.  I decided for now I'll do it myself and think of something Guzzlord can't screw up that's still helpful to his dad and I.  I feel like there's some weaponized incompetence at play here. 

It was a dumb weekend and I hated it.  

Friday night I cooked a huge meal, and we reminded Guzzlord to do the dishes therefrom at some point before 7AM Saturday because it's helpful if we can access our sink when we wake up.  I know I should honestly just do this all myself, but the kid has 1 f'ing chore in the whole world and you would think we'd asked him to put a new roof on the house every day.  

So MIL had come to visit for a month and it's now been a month and half, It's been hard for me being around her and SS12 after listening to the hateful things they said about me and my family. I have to let them use things that I purchased for their convenience and I have to prepare food for them not always but at some days. It angers me to do anything for them I feel they are not deserving of my labour or time or touching the property I purchased since they made me out to be a devil and they clearly hate me. I don't know if I'm overreacting for feeling this way.