I have whiplash from all this back and forth, but Dh informed me last night that Toxic Troll was flying to Hawai'i, and had sent Munchkin SD13 photos of herself in the plane during take-off. She knows how to unknowingly stick the finger in the sore spot for kiddo thats for sure. Last time TT went on a trip, she also sent Munchkin photos of her good times, and SD shared with me it was hurtful, because her mother never takes her anywhere, and why wouldnt she want to take her on a trip? Shes also been to Pismo beach and gotten tshirts for skids.