I need ADVICE ive tried everything! My DH has full custody of his daughter shes 9. Her mom is in and out of her life basically when she feels like being a mom. Im left to pick up the pieces. Sd has always had lots of issues with lying, being sneaky & trying to act older than she is. She constantly talks aboit me and hurts my feelings. I recently put her in therapy which has helped some. Our relationship is Rocky she cares for me but craves her toxic mother's attention. My dh expects me to be able to just be her mom like I am to my kids and its not so simple.