So last week I posted my first blog entry asking for help becuase my SO and I caught his 15 year old son throwing our cat on camera and calling her a B****. This was a few months after he was caught on camera at his moms house abusing his 3 cats before she passed. I did end up taking our cat Midnight to my moms house and she has been adjusting well and has a lot more room and a better view. So i feel relived she is in a safe space and I no longer have to worry about him trying anything again.

So my boyfriend's son is 15. Even though we are not married I consider him basically a stepson becuase my boyfriend and I have been together 13 years. I know that is a long time to be together and not be married. That is a whole other story...