So I am dating this guy who has 2 kids with an ex wife. I am struggling with the fact that she will forever and always be in our lives. It doesnt help that she is filled with drama and doesnt want me in my boyfriends or the kids lives to begin with. Like when the kids get excited to see me she makes them stop. She is always trying to talk to my boyfriend about things other than just the kids and it gets super annoying. He has talked to her about boundaries but it doesnt help. What I am also struggling with is the fact that the kids arent mine.