Ok so I'm recently married, I will call my husband DH and I have one SD8. Now, my DH has been wonderful and there's been little things here and there with her being spoiled/rude but my DH sees these things and things have been improving. However, this one specific situation is bugging me and I need advice on how to bring it up with DH without setting off a big fight or anything. The situation is this:

-DH and I have been planning for months to go to his high school reunion in Philly.